The Stages Of Getting Back Together With An Ex

Men - don’t force or talk about commitment. Let the woman bring up the topic of commitment. Just make her laugh and give her a good time. I speak from experience

This is amazing. I was rushing it, then realize….now trying to meet up.

Wow! My ex and I divorced ten years ago. Now we’re talking about reconciliation for the second time. He had fear attachment; I have avoidance attachment. Not a good combination.

I just went through all these stages in 8 days 😂🤷🏼‍♀️

Im on the txting stage now after 3 months of NC and now we agreed to meet up a week from now… and lets see if the phone calls will happend before the first meet up date.

We broke up a year and a half ago.. went through all stages and became casual friends.. And I got a date with my ex on Valentine’s Day!! I guess you can call that there romantic date. 😏

Wow! Thx

I checked out. He dumped me so I decided to just let go. Did not contact him ever since he dumped me. It took me around 66+ days & one morning I just woke up & no longer felt like I did days after the breakup - that's when I knew I was okay & survived what I thought I wouldn't. 🙂

Growing as a person... a confident, sexy, fit, capable, attractive, unattached person =)

I think the phone call stage is not necessary.

We met up again after breaking up 6 months ago. Was very tender, she loves me that's clear. But she mentally is unwilling to commit at the moment, she is dealing with mental illness etc. She talks to me now and wants me in her life. I don't know how to approach this

What if the no contact stage still, we broke up 9 months ago, but I want her back, but still know this is not the time, I'm working on me, how should I handle this stages?

My ex and I broke up, thought it was over. In that time I met new people and started to find myself again, but once I was back into reality I realized how much I actually missed them in my life after about two weeks.. Not even romantically, I just missed their presence. I added them and it turns out they missed me and wanted to start over. We had a very mature conversation about what we thought about during our time apart, then we agreed to start our relationship over again from the beginning. After we talk to each other and hang out for a while we will see what path we want to take. Either a relationship, friends, or go our separate ways.

What if we didn’t really do no contact and they’ve been talking to me a few times a week every week since the breakup it’s been 6 and a half weeks?

Me and my ex broke up 11 months ago. I just saw him 2 weeks ago we went for a walk and dinner then my place. We were talking over text for a few days before meeting up. We never had a phone call stage though. Then two days ago he called me wifey out of nowhere and that he misses me and he wants to go away together and he booked a romantic getaway for us which we’re going on in a week and a half. Hoping he asks for me to get back with him 🙏🏽❤️ I mean I don’t know why an ex would call me wifey and book a romantic overnight getaway for us if he just wanted to be friends or just have sex. Any advice would be appreciated. Great video by the way it gives me hope!

It’s beenn ten years to get through the stages. WTH 😮

I did almost 4 months NC. Successfully. I'm abroad because I study abroad but our 2 year relationship wasn't long distance. We met accidentally on New year's eve while I was home for the holidays and greeted each other and talked like for 2 minutes but positive. Then, we texted 2 times, positive things (nothing about the relationship, only about my personal growth) and common things, I was even funny and he liked the conversation, even thanked me. Than when I was flying back abroad I put a story tagging another guy because we were travelling together (he's my friend tho) and my ex replied on the story to wish me luck for my exams, we texted a little and that was. Now I'm stuck and abroad, Idk what to do next or if I even should do anything. I'm starting to forget him and not care but I still feel he is the man of my life. Just waiting... Maybe I can get back home after a month but idk if it's worth it.

im at the 7 stage after 3 months break of my 9 years long gf. She does said i love u and i miss you at times but its mostly me who invited her out. but everytime i ask can u b mine again she said not now. everyday i live in fear hmm

please i need your advices...I followed all your advices cause he broke up with me but it was my mistake( a week ago)....I started to do no contact rule and he is reaching out and sending me msgs, more than 5 times and I ignored him, yesterday he sent me a screenshot to a lady who ask him out and he refused( didn't understand why) and I didn't reply and posted a story of me enjoying my time cause it was my bestie birthday, he sent three dm and deleted them immediately and he blocked me again.... from the day one of break up he blocks and unblock multiple time and he is the one who reach out but at z same time say he don't want me anymore. I love him and I don't know what to do

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