How I Changed My Life!

Raya you have the sweetest soul! Thank you for sharing!

This hit me pretty hard. I've felt that way my whole life. "If only I can feel beautiful, I can feel happy." My boyfriend tells me that he loves me and thinks I'm beautiful but I never believe it because no matter what anyone says I still feel unattractive. :( it's really painful never feeling good enough.

Just to confirm - this is not sponsored in any way and I am in no way 'selling a product' or trying to get you guys to sign up. I'm just sharing my experience and what I got out of it that has changed my life for the better and I want you guys to see if you can apply it in your lives to feel more free. Even if only one of you hears this and uses it to change your life for the better, then this video is worth it <3 Thank you so much for watching!

"we accept the love we think we deserve"

I respect you so much for being so raw.

My story is being that perfect successful person who has the perfect job, finances, huge house, and knows what they want person. I came to realize that if I try to be like that I would never be happy so I've accepted the fact that my version of a perfect life is being creative, not having that 8-5 job, following my dreams of creating a blog and being content with living in a small apartment. It's amazing how much weight comes off ur shoulders when you accept that this is who u really are. Good for you Raya! Time to live life to the fullest!

I know that you didn't make this video to get comments saying you're beautiful and it's not why I'm saying it, but I honestly think you are SO damn beautiful!!! Like, really beautiful! Thank you for this message... needed that right now!

Thank you for sharing. I am in tears right now because that is also my story. Ironically, I have vivid memories of watching the videos from you and Louis about your Romantic Birthday Surprise and thinking of how effortlessly beautiful you looked and what I would give to have your legs. It goes to show that we don't always see ourselves the way the world does. Just so you know, I, for one, see you as kind, beautiful, toned, friendly and fortunate to have many friends and a boyfriend who obviously adores you.

Thank you, Raya for being so vulnerable. This is me too and your words helped.

i just found you and I love you. I'm so happy you're feeling free. Can't wait to feel the same! <3

You are beautiful no matter what. Your soul always shines through. Thank you for sharing. I needed to hear this today. ❤❤❤❤

I've never related so much to someone in my life. I have been the exact same way my entire life it's insane that I'm now realizing the true meaning of my problem. Thanks Raya💕

The facts and stories have ruled my life for 52 yrs now! I will continue to watch this video and other ones you post to help me grow. It's never too late! Thanks for sharing!

You are such a inspiring person Raya! loved this video, love how honest you are

I did the Landmark Forum about 12 years ago then followed it up by the Success Seminar that they put on. It truly changed my life. I was in my mid 40's and it is the reason that I'm at the age of 55 am able to retire early. I have confidence, self-esteme, just so much growth that I know would not have been possible without the teachings of the Landmark Forum. Its that simple. Its hard to recommend to people because it costs some money and most of us struggle spending an amount on self- improvment. But the growth is priceless. Good for you for taking it, congratulations!!!! Wait, I've now been continuing to watch and you say you've just taken the first day.... WOW.... wait until you gratuate! Your feet won't be touching the ground, you'll feel so liberated and purposeful. :) Wait until you get into the, "You don't know, what you don't know.... " XD or the "I'm listening to the story that I already know that you'll tell"..... XD Good for you!!!

I really really love your personality, and I just stumbled across your channel and I am in love! Thank you for your tips for youtubers, I will really take that in mind! I love your advice videos! Keep up the great work!!! <3

oh sweetie! i love that when you say "you need to hear this" it really is a thought everyone should hear. i only know you through videos but you are the most honest beautiful human being out there. we all struggle, i am so proud of you for sharing this and i hope to do the same. thank you!

Beautifully articulated, made me tear up, because I could see how much this was genuinely positively impacted you and I hope I can feel this too, thank you so much for sharing! xx

Jeez it's insane how much your story relates to me. I'm always constantly judging myself in what i eat, what I drink, what I wear or comparing myself to everyone else because I've made the story in my mind that I can't be accepted or loved fully until I feel I look good enough. I'm always constantly fighting myself because being slimmer in my mind would make me happy and even my my boyfriend happy. Growing up my family would always tell me I was too fat, that I needed to lose weight and while those may be facts, I've planted so many thoughts in regards to that, they hurt me on a daily basis. I know it won't be as easy as it was for you to let it go but this was really nice to hear. I wish I had someone like you in my life constantly giving me support and positive feedback. If you still lived in NY I would totally wish to be your friend. lol

Congratulations on doing the Forum. I did the work in the 70's and have enjoyed the ever expanding awareness to this day. Hang on girl, it is going to be an exciting ride!