10 Feminine Ways to GET a Man's Attention *game changer*

I am 60 year old woman. 36 years ago, I asked my husband on a date…lol. I was hesitant, embarrassed, and uncomfortable to do so. His friends told me that he liked me and that he wanted to date me, but that he was shy and wouldn’t ask me out. They encouraged me to ask him. It was so hard for me. I was trembling, my voice quivered, and I hesitated in my speech a lot when I asked him. I actually, still feel embarrassed 36 years later. But I’m glad that I asked because he said yes. 😊

I like how these tips are not just about manipulating men to like you; they also point to ways you can develop your character and confidence. For example, being graceful and poised takes time and practice, and benefits you in all areas of life, not just romantic!

10:55 “Feminine flirting is essentially an escalation of subtle, suggestive behaviours draped in plausible deniability.“ Very beautifully put!

I normally would have wanted a guy to ask me out, but I was very good friends with my husband prior to dating him. I knew he was very reserved and shy and there was a slim chance he would ask me out. There was one day where he broke the touch barrier unusual to our normal friendship interactions. Right then, I knew he liked me. I didn’t see shame in giving him some encouragement and prompting a conversation about how he felt. Turns out, I was super right. We’ve been married almost 5 years now.

Man here. Although still a bit of a man-child and low quality man, I aspire to become a high quality gentleman. Everything you said is spot on for me personally. The way you advice women to act sounds extremely attractive and impressive to me. I still don't deserve a woman like that but hopefully one day I will be worthy. God bless and ladies, listen to this woman. She knows what she's talking about! Edit: subbed😎

I love it when your videos are long!!! By the way, as a 16 year old girl I want to thank you so much 💘 I came here as a very lost atheist who was baptized Catholic and today I went to an Orthodox church for the first time and it felt so amazing !!!! ❤️❤️❤️ I truly believe orthodoxy is the way. Thank you so much, jasyme. I don't know where I would be today without your videos and wisdom !!!

I remember casually reaching out to a guy I met (now husband of 11 years), asking him about a car I saw him post of FB, because I also liked cars and thought he was cute. I was also recently single after a 3 year relationship, so not a lot of people knew I was single again. He quickly started discussion and asked me to come over for a bonfire that night. By the next day he asked me to be his girlfriend, engaged within 2 weeks, married within a month. Sometimes it's just simply letting them know you are available, then they do the rest :)

Jasmine you are glowing as usual. This is quickly becoming one of my favorite femininity channels. You are doing God’s work ma’am.

You are becoming one of my favourite feminine youtubers, it’s so hard to be feminine. If you look online the path for men to be masculine has been already cleared and visible, while femininity is a maze with feminism, “dark feminity”, being independent etc. Thank you so much from a 13 year old girl striving to be more feminine ❤

Smile + eye contact= works 99% of the time

This is 100% true . I have seen so many women get used or loose a man’s interest by being too pushy and trying too hard to get a guy .

Funny how i did almost all of these when i was single. Worked every single time. The only man I’ve ever directly asked out is my now husband, but i already knew he was attracted to me. However that didn’t workout for various reasons.. then he asked me out months later.. been together ever since

Like someone else said I love that these aren’t manipulative or sexualizing. I especially love the asking the guy of interest to hold your jacket gesture. I think that one is so clever yet flirty, classy, and discreet. That gives said guy enough time to prepare to handle the rest 😄 I have actually used the “can you take my picture” one before and it worked amazingly! Dated for 6 months. This was a great video that is much needed in this current dating climate where men are coming off more timid/shy than ever before due to social media or whatever else!

Eye contact is the hardest imaging looking at someone eyes then smile I am so scare to look like a crazy girl

This is GOLDEN!✨ There’s a difference between making the first move and signaling

Thank you for making these types of videos! I've been a single mom for 6 years now and I have found it extremely hard to get back into getting a man's attention in a genuine way. There is a man at my parish that I would just love to get to know but I am an overthinker and I act the complete opposite of what I actually want! I will try next time to use some of these tips!

I always ask men if they can open the bottle or carry things for me. I started doing this when I was 6 hahahaha

This video and comment section is making me smile so big! ❤ This is so refreshing from the hyper specialized stuff on Instagram, and the toxic crap on TikTok.

Thank you so much for this video! I am surrounded by a large Orthodox community and there are plenty of young men but unfortunately, none of them seem to take action to sit down and have a conversation let alone ask for my number or to go on a date. It’s very frustrating because I think everyone is in the headspace of wanting to settle down and get married because of our faith, but no one does anything!!! I think these guys are just shy and don’t want to cross any boundaries… so it’s time I take matters into my own hands a little 😂

I really appreciate the demonstration of how you would initiate an interaction, without hiding your shyness, nervousness.