Why You Should Stay Single

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Published 2024-02-14

To be alone forever. Some people’s greatest fear. A table for one at a fancy restaurant, falling asleep in a cold bed, a quiet,-empty house. With no one to share your wins and losses with. No one to witness your happiest moments or comfort you in your most difficult ones.

It’s that sinking feeling in your chest. Imagining that you’re unlovable and undesirable and fearing you might remain that way forever.

But what if we could change our thinking about being single and focus more on the positive aspects of it?

Here’s why you should stay single.

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All Comments (21)

@Elsayed80 4 months ago

bro uploaded that video on valentines for a reason ☠☠
@waedjradi 4 months ago

The Sun is all alone. Yet, it still shines.
@lordhtalk 4 months ago

If you've been in a bad relationship you'll see the beauty of being single.
@YoungGandalf2325 4 months ago

Talking to significant other: "We need to break up. Aperture said it's better to be single."
@Baseds__Backup_Account_3 4 months ago

"Be alone, that's where ideas are born." -Nicola Tesla.
@AceKite00 3 months ago

One of the worst feelings is getting into a relationship and later realizing it was a mistake.
@Rico_Suave201 4 months ago

Honestly, I am almost 24 and never been in a romantic relationship, never had my hand held, never kissed a girl, obviously never had sex. Sometimes I feel like that doesn’t allow me to fully appreciate being alone, since it’s all I ever known.
@vivekacharya3652 4 months ago

Coming from a dysfunctional family, being alone seems priceless❤❤❤❤
@ashish-fd6zu 4 months ago

Bold of you to share this on valentines Day.
@thomasupton2664 3 months ago

Detachment is key. I'm 61 and have been single for 29 years. Life is good. I want for nothing.
@Anarcath 4 months ago

Coming home to an empty apartment and waking up in it, are some of the great pleasures of life.
@Baseds__Backup_Account_3 4 months ago

Loneliness is the effect of not being alone for too long but rather having your mind untouched for too long.
@BerryBeastie 4 months ago

Being alone is better than being with a toxic person, & being with the right companion who helps you grow is better than being alone.
@teezzmegee972 4 months ago

I'm isolated by my own actions, struggling with relationships due to mental health issues and societal pressures, haunted by painful memories and bitterness towards myself and the world, I feel exhausted and powerless amidst the chaos.
@jcsrst 4 months ago

Well said! Better to be on your own than be with the WRONG person!
@gemodemplay415 3 months ago

Never been in a relationship before. Life`s been great still, the sky still above, still blue, the food taste as good, the coffee smells as good, the sun shines the same.
@donstoddard8458 4 months ago

I'm 71 years old and I've been single most of my life. Yes I've had my love affairs, but I have to admit I love being single.
@davidlala4061 4 months ago

Bold of you to think I have any control on the fact that I'm single
@998bb 4 months ago

No interaction no drama pure peace no desire no hurt only dedication to work
@heavenlydenied 4 months ago

Loneliness is a fear that many face. But if you can face that loneliness, accept it, love it, then the fear doesnt exist anymore. Imagine living a life where youre not motivated by the fear of loneliness. Imagine living a life where your happiness is not dependent on a person or thing outside of yourself.