How to actually make people like you.

Bro just spawned out of no where and decided to make the best videos in the world

About 8 years ago, I felt lonely and a bit depressed. I decided to, whenever going outside the door, to just smile at people whether I felt like it or not, the amount of smiles I got in return made me feel like smiling every time!

The fact that 269k people watched this video says alot about the cruel world , but its beautiful

Instead of arguing, you should try to discuss. It turns from a competition about winning, into a learning experience for both parties (hopefully). That's how I like to think about it at least.

i think it's important to acknowledge that we shouldn't change ourselves in the process. the "if they like me, they like, if they don't, too bad" mentality is still applicable if making someone like you includes going against your core morals and values.

I don’t want people to like me more, I want to love them more.

There are people who don't want to talk to you and won't talk to you It's okay it is not a mission to be friends with the whole world cus that would never be possible But being friends with even one person is a blessing

#6 - know your weaknesses and be ok with them. This allows others to be laid bad around you. They don’t feel like they have to be “perfect” because you’re so easy going with your own faults (obviously don’t be a mess about it tho)

I've realized that I have already been doing all of those things more and more recently, but not for other people to like me. I've been doing this to like myself more, to have a clear conscience about myself

great advice but i have a little remark here :) Don't only talk about the other person all of the time. Yes, they will like you for listening to them, but they won't actually care about who YOU are, only what you can do for them. It is so incredibly important to have mutual relationships. Feel free to share a little story from your life, and they will feel closer to you, because they get to know you better.

My sincere compliment to the viewers of this video: It takes conviction to know that you need improvement and it isn't always easy to sit yourself down and say, "I am not good at this so I want to learn more". The fact that you have decided to watch this video says a lot about yourself. I am impressed and motivated by each and every one of you who acknowledge your own shortcomings and have the willingness to improve upon your situation. Keep it up, I am absolutely positive you will reach your goals if you apply yourself to the fullest!

1. don't look ugly

I've always been actually doing these without even finding the video before, I can't say that many people really like me but at least I have no problems with no one. I don't think anyone would hate me (of course they can, but I think if they do it's probably all about themselves and it's personal) so I'm grateful for that. I try to respect everyone and I'm trying to be careful about not judging people randomly, and I think people like that about me

I've just finished reading the book! "How to win friends and influence people" It's super awesome!

bro dropped the best guide videos i’ve ever seen, you doesn’t just explained but made the video based on practice, which helped remembering the info better and easier, along with the examples you gave us

The tip about letting people talk about themselves actually helped me a lot when I first started socializing (in college). Unknowingly encouraging others to talk about their life and interests, because I didn't have any of my own, got me a good friend. And the smile... At some point, after talking to my therapist and getting rid of toxic people in my environment, I actually started smiling more and began enjoying every day I lived. Then I developed a habit of wishing others a good day: drivers, cashiers, just random people I've encountered. The amount of smiles I got in return and still get to this day is amaizing. Also, I think the key is confidence. Not necessarily bold confidence: just understanding that your emotions and feelings, requests and wants are valid enough to be sure you have all the right to communicate to another person. Being sure you can freely talk to someone, make mistakes, be slightly weird or unusual, and it's okay. That helped me overcome shit ton of fears. To an extent when people don't believe me saying I'm an introvert.

Bro wake up , IncognitoCeo posted again

The music, the ghibli in the background, the chill voice and not condescending tone, these videos are the best

"Do I like myself?" is a question everyone should ask themselves if they want to be loved/liked. The first and foremost step for making others like you is to love yourself and I'm not talking about the "toxic self-love" advice rather to become a version of yourself that you can love. Trust me if you achieve this there is nothing that can hold you back. "Treat others like the way you expect them to treat you" can be applied here. Talk to people like the way you expect/like them to talk to you. You need to think over all this to get the idea but You've free will, think about it yourself! These are just my thoughts. I apologise for any mistakes made and to anyone I have hurt through my horrible writing. Amazing advice! I love all of these. they all seem so simple yet so hard to implement

When I first saw this, I was like ‘damn! I needed this’ and when I saw everything said. I realised, I had already been doing this from the start.