THE PROFIT OF PANDERING TO WOMEN: RISE OF VICTIM MENTALITY

DOES SOCIETY PROMOTE VICTIM MENTALITY IN WOMEN? 👀

Yes! You are so right! Pandering men to women is a big business. There’s nothing more attractive than a woman who is accountable for her actions

The problem is both sides have a victim mentality and don't make efforts to truly understand the other.

I despise that Ace guy so much. He is Derrick Jaxn 2.0 and many women online fall for his trap. You are one of the first few woman who called out his pandering. I don’t know what world we’re living in where women who claim to have been through many manipulative men can’t spit when one is pandering for profit lol. Especially after Derrick was caught

I truly believe if we as women work to better ourselves & focus on being better emotionally & mentally we wouldn’t have to worry about attracting or being attracted to bad energy….

Hopefully you see this comment Tynisha . I appreciate your content and the direction it has been going in because getting a “bag” by manipulating people into not taking accountability is irresponsible to me. It is helping to create disharmony between black men and women. I do not understand why women can’t see the red flag in the comment section when only women are in agreement. Truth doesn’t speak to one gender alone. It speaks to everybody. If the comment section only is one sided sometimes you have to step back and examine the content.Plus femininity and masculinity are not conditional. If a man ever said when he finds the right woman he will be/step into his masculinity people would have a field day bashing him lol smh. We are accountable for how we present ourselves to the world. We must look at our problems from the POV that we played a part instead of pointing fingers since we can only change ourselves. Thank you for speaking your truth.

Finally!! A woman who isnt gullible to these pandering clowns

It’s good to see when a woman gets it! Salute to you

I appreciate your point of view being mature to speak up on subjects like the guy at beginning as well as Jt. Sad how thos victim mindset is growing and it must be stopped. We as people must give push back when someone tries to do this. Like your post you give insight on both sides it's just there's not a lot of women that will speak against bad behavior from women that you for not pandering just to make money that's not helping anyone because eventually people who do at some point get exposed. Won't call names but it was a guy doing the same thing now he's looking crazy right now. Keep up the good content 👌🏾 😎✅️✅️🌹

Victim Mentality is not to be confused with Victim of actual crime, fraud etc. (In the legal sense of the word).

Tynisha! TALK! TALK TO EM!

I think the way we talk about "boys don't cry" and how it's affected men is the same as this conversation here. Girls may have their feelings protected, fed sugar coated messages and lenient punishments or lack there of in their youth and grow up to be "victims" when anything outside of what they've been conditioned to receiving is given. And both young boys and girls suffer due to the poor decisions of their authoritative figures (older family members, teachers, politicians etc.)

Repetition control the subconscious mind. Whatever we hear over takes over her conscious mind. Life a beautiful thing when we hold our self responsible. What it does is stretch that mental reslove skill we have to develop. For me it becomes fun to see how far I go through the hard times because the other side os glory. Easy is boring and taking responsibility allows people to stretch outside of a level of comfort. Hard but necessary.

It's definitely a healthy way for us men to express respect love and kindness to women without pandering Ace's content is pure click bait most men that make content like that are lowkey players that use women to build they're audience.

💯 facts. Good work this was definitely needed for folks to learn.

We are all familiar with the long time phrase ' yes men'. The contemporary version for women is the popular 'yass queen'. It is astounding that many are oblivious to how absolutely detrimental this is. Such persons not only enable and validate poor decision making in others, but they embolden them. There is nothing worse than being courageously wrong and strong. So long as there is a peanut gallery behind such persons loudly championing poor, self-sabotaging choices, proper evaluation isnt possible within the individual. They will plant their feet firmly and triple down in their own ignorance because said ignorance has been validated by hundreds of others just as ignorant; creating the false sense of righteousness and satisfaction that the best decision/behavior is being undertaken. It is evident every day on social media and in real life - the blind giving the blind driving directions. Its a social epidemic at this point. This is what failing each other looks like. In the end, both the people and the culture as a whole suffers.

It's called polarity pimping. I first heard the term from a channel called chezza outta nowhere. I've tried to tell women this. When you avoid accountability, you're basically saying you have no agency. I don't think women understand how that makes them look. And to be clear, men are no better in this regard. One of the first things my father taught me is to have my own thought process, come to my own conclusions. It's sad to see right through people, and know they were never taught that lesson. "Life is not happening TO you. It's just happening."

The victim mentality is good reason why women (that I know) have a hard time maintaining friendships amongst each other.

Umar Johnson, Derrick Jaxn, Ace metaphor these are just a few names to use when it comes to pandering to women. This is why its way too hard for us to hold people accountable. There is no way 1 person was wrong for the entirety of a relationship. But they will say that its men to get women to pay them 💁🏿‍♂️

Great stuff ! Very well explained! Logical !