I’m a 49 Year-Old Black Woman With No Husband. Here’s How I Fill My Life

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Published 2024-02-22
I’m a 49 Year-Old Black Woman With No Husband. Here’s How I Fill My Life | for Black Women Embracing Ease. Why do some people hate to see Black women traveling abroad and living a life of joy and liberation while de-centering men? How do you stop waiting for marriage or until you have a partner to start living your life? And how do you decide what a full life looks like for your?

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All Comments (21)
  • @bettyeboop2942
    I swear men hate to see bw happy and thriving without them. Being single is not a death sentence.
  • @ggwwio4681
    Having a husband or not. Does not define you. Husband or not...live your life.
  • @DISH2IMPRESS
    A lot of women need to realize not everybody is going to get married no matter how bad you may want it
  • @arewabanjoko7726
    I have been married twice and currently divorced. I made a decision not to have children. I am happy and enjoying my life as a single woman.
  • @Roun393
    I was married for 28 years!!!! I’m now Single!!! Some people don’t realize it but MOST BLACK HUSBANDS give u health problems!!! All my sickness went away when I divorced him!!! I’m soooo happy and at peace now!! I have plenty of friends and my Beautiful daughter & grand baby fulfill me 4real!!!
  • @mizzmolly7649
    I just turned 62 this week. I love my life being never married and no children. That's the life I carved out for myself. I'll be traveling to my 6th continent - Antarctica - this year, I have longtime friends and family and I'm always working on some project. I also get to work from home, which makes my job enjoyable. If you want to be married with kids, then I support you. The important thing is living the life that brings you joy. ❤
  • @leejaved4183
    Ladies, I am 82 years of age and traveled to East Africa TWICE in the past year and a half. Guess what? If the Lord allows, hope to return to LIVE there very soon.
  • @Jadaistyping
    I’m 26 and I aspire to live like this. I don’t want to be married and I don’t want kids. Hell, I don’t even want any pets anymore lol I’m at peace and I want to traveling as I please.
  • @brendaadair3418
    This is a low key Badass flex❤ “I get to be wherever I want in the world for as long as I want to be there.”💪🏾
  • @es7432
    Once I adopted my child as a single woman, my extreme desire to be married dissipated. I make good money, lived overseas with my child, created a village wherever we went...we are doing great and my life is fulfilling! My child will be off to college in a few years, and I look forward to spending extended time overseas again.
  • @angeebb3080
    I have a husband and we have a great time together. I also have friends and we have a good time but truthfully I enjoy my husband's company better. Black women enjoy your life with or without a man.
  • @valeriansteele
    That means you will live longer and have less stress. Having and “keeping” a man is not an achievement and I wish more women were not so desperate to be able to show off the man they have.
  • @LeisurelyLorrie
    I am happily divorced. On a solo trip in Mexico and loving it
  • @carmenjacobs1815
    I’m 50 years old, never married and I love my life! Thank you Stephanie for sharing.
  • @rose4u111
    Well said, Stephanie!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Early in my life, I spent 13 years unhappily married, catering to a selfish spouse. Over time, I centered myself and internalized numerous life lessons. I am now divorced, retired, and happily single. Like the honorable Rep. Maxine Waters said, “I’m reclaiming my time”.🤗🌹
  • @oweber2160
    I’m 36 and have grown comfortable being single. When I was younger I always had a bf but realized I love me more 😂
  • @ColorismHealing
    When I realized how many women are married and miserable, I woke up to the possibility of being single and happy. Thank you for speaking this important message.
  • The world has really tricked some people into thinking that marriage is the golden egg and without it, black women are sad and lacking! Thinking that your value lies in connection with another person and not within yourself is the truly sad part. I love how you also pointed out that some of the women on the trip ARE married, but they haven't lost their individuality and joy in doing things without their husbands.
  • If it were 100 men traveling he wouldn’t have anything negative to say, neither would the women. Check yourselves as to why you hate to see Black women happy. Why did you feel a need to question grown as_ BW minding their business and having fun🤔