5 Ways To AVOID Boring Text Conversations | Say This To Your Crush

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Published 2019-05-07
Want to send text messages to your crush that get them to respond instantly? Here's how you can avoid boring text messages that ruin conversations. Chances are you're making these 5 mistakes and fixing them will make your crush SO much more excited to talk to you!

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⏱️Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction
0:48 - Tip #1: Don't send the same greetings every single day
1:47 - Tip #2: Switch between asking questions and telling stories
3:17 - Tip #3: Make sure to tease them and flirt with them
5:12 - Tip #4: Don't stay in texting limbo with them forever
7:31 - Tip #5: Don't be overbearing, give them time to respond

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All Comments (21)
  • @hutao9892
    The fact im searching this up is straight up SAD
  • I’m taking relationship advice from a guy with dozens of action figures in his room
  • @aeliusdawn
    "Meet them in person" CRIES IN QUARANTINE
  • @dead..
    The fact that we are all so awkward that we have to search a tutorial on how to socialize.
  • me : hey her : heyyy me : wassup her : nm wbu me : I was doing some origami her : ok gtg bye
  • @Mnyu
    1. Don't send the same greetings every day. It is recommended you skip "hello" and jump into number two so that way your conversation has purpose. 2. Switch between asking questions and telling stories. Open ended questions give more freedom. However, though he didn't say this, make sure they actually lead somewhere and aren't totally random or you could seem weird. 3. Make sure to tease and flirt with them. If they seem defensive about any teasing, cease immediately. Also don't use the same one word compliments, attach them to situations you had with them to know you mean it. 4. Don't stay in texting limbo forever. Meet them in person. (though COVID-19 makes that real easy right now. I'd say have a call date.) 5. Don't be overbearing, give them time to respond. People are busy and if you're placing all your energy into another person constantly it usually indicates you need to work on yourself.
  • @angelsubs282
    Me: Hi Him: Hi Me: I’m bored Him: Thats sad .....
  • @wyattknowz3813
    Me : "hey kangaroo girl" Random Australian girl : "fuck you say to me little shit"
  • @anita-tt6zk
    gets crush’s number, never says hi just goes: me: “i almost just got ran over” him: “ok” ...
  • @Anna-qx9rt
    I literally had to come watch this bc I can’t start a damn conversation 😭
  • @the7thhokage404
    Me and my crush were talking about animals and she said she liked dogs. So I called her dog girl. She blocked🤨
  • @panicwolf474
    This guy is really wise. Idk why he's not giving important conferences in places like TedX
  • @That196
    So basically say “hey kangaroo girl”
  • My convos are dry on text, but I'm a lot more interesting on calls and it's annoying
  • @mrgbomb3001
    Im such a dry texter. And im quiet in person most of the time but with some people i can make a great conversation