Never Let Go Of Someone With These 9 Character Traits

What is one character trait that you value the most? Comment below! Let see what others have to say :)

“You deserve someone who’s gonna treat you like you matter everyday. Not just when it’s convenient for them.” 🙏🏽

These qualities are gold not only in partners, but in friends too. Cherish such people in your life. They are a real blessing.

7 years with my husband who has all these qualities. Our relationship is always warm, peaceful and calm.

" If someone makes you happy, make them happier. "

Alternative title: 9 traits that you should strive to achieve, in order to be a good partner. Edit: so it's been 8 months and I actually have been trying to put into practice what I said here. Although my partner and i have been together for 9 years, within just this past year we have grown so much closer by just by really trying to put ourselves in each others shoes. In the beginning I used to get upset at my partner because I felt like I was always giving more than they would give back. Instead of telling them this I would lash out and became petty and passive agressive. but now things are different, we still fight but we always try to express exactly what this issue is instead of blaming each other. If you are having a hard time finding someone, my advice to you is look for somone who is willing to learn but don't also forget to be willing to see things though their eyes. Sometimes you will fight and when you do really listen to what they are saying before calling them out on their insecurities, they may need your help when no one else can provide it.

I think this list can apply not only to romantic partners but to close friends and family as well.

If you got someone who is: • Never gonna give you up • Never gonna let you down • Never gonna run around and desert you • Never gonna make you cry • Never gonna say goodbye • Never gonna tell a lie and hurt you Then you better treat them right because they've been doing that to you. You know the rules, and so do they.

Big Brain Moment: You should have these qualities too

1. They emotionally and mentally support you 2. They engage in your personal growth 3. They are emotionally intelligent 4. They are understanding 5. They are kind 6. They are respectful (of your opinions, experiences, boundaries) 7. They know how to compromise 8. They accept your flaws 9. They share your core values (marriage, family, religion)

I found someone I like a lot, but we both agreed we are better as friends. Doesn't have to just be romantic relationships, guys. Find these people in general, they are literal life savers!

don't forget that "accepting someone's flaws" does not mean you need to tolerate flawed behavior that negatively impacts you. Toxic or malicious behavior is not a "flaw" you need to accept. I had someone who acted this way and I was always told by him that I should "love and accept him the way he is" which would include accepting lies, manipulation, control, narcissism, cheating..the list goes on.

yessss to emotionally intelligent people + people who encourage you to grow!! Honestly these are traits that I would expect from a manager whos also supposed to serve as your mentor but in my experience, many of managers definitely did NOT display these traits

All you u need is some1 who loves your weirdness, wants to spend time with you and most importantly, respects you

This made me realize my ex isn’t a narcissist and neither am I. We met after suffering narcissistic abuse and were there for each other for a long time, but we have different values and goals and neither of us is wrong for wanting what we want.

I found this perfect person about 3 years ago. I thought it wasn’t possible, but she exists! This video describes our relationship the last 3 years and just reminds me of how amazing we are together.

I love people who are kind to everybody. It's important for me to see how they treat others, no matter their status. I wouldn't want someone around who is only nice when there is something in return.

Not only is this important for couples but it’s also important for friendships

not a romantic relationship but a friend of mine has all the qualities included in the video... i have known her since elementary and even if we are in a long distance, our relationship never changed and how we treat each other is all the same... i am very grateful that i've met her coz she's actually the only one i can lean on and talk about my personal thoughts... i am an introvert and it's really hard for me to open up and it took a while before i told her about my problems, but i've realized that there is nothing wrong of opening up and that i should not be ashamed. i am also glad that i told her about it (my problems) coz it helped me grow and acknowledge that i am not the only one who's struggling emotionally. i would say that she is the person i have put my trust on and whom i'm very thankful for. thanks r.

A sense of humor! My husband and I make each other laugh all the time and we have now been married nearly 47 years! I think we now also possess a lot of these qualities you mentioned, but some we’ve had to work on.