Why Blitzo Can't Stand Being Loved! Helluva Boss Apology Tour Analysis!

I SHIP BLITZIKA! BLITZIKA FOREVER

I mean, Blitz is probably responsibly for the death of his mother. How does someone feel, causing the lose of one of the most important people in his life? And I don't wanna know how he was treated by his father and sister after Tilla's death. He lost the only other person he was close to, Fizz, because of his actions. Blitz hates himself for what happend in his past, destroying his family, even trough it was just an accident. He's afraid to mess new relationships up and lose them again. Before everything, he has to start loving himself first.

Blitzø is like a abused dog. Their so used to getting beaten that they expect it even when their new owners are nice

Blitzø's trauma is, in my view, heavily tied to the death of his mother, and the accepting of the blame piled onto him by Cash and Barbie Wire. Blitzø has never healed from his mother's death and it causes him to avoid that level of relationship like the plague. The reason, he's fearful of having it ripped away, as from the accident and fire. Emotionally I don't think Blitzø thinks he'd be able to survive another similar loss.

I don't think he hates love , I think he's scared of it. He thinks so low of himself that eventually everyone gets close too will leave. So instead of waiting for it to happen he distances himself first. He still craves love so substitute it with lust and transaction.

Blitzø is kinda like bojack horseman. Both wish to gain love and acceptence from the people around them, both had a horrible parent that played a role in the person they came to be, both screwed over a close friend(at least acidentilly in Blitzø's case) and both try to justify their behaviour when they both know they are indeed the one at fault. The difference i see is that Blitzø at least has more redeeming qualities then bojack and is slowely learning to become a better person.

Yes Stolas already showed affection to Blitz as a child, but we have to remember the circumstances as to why they spent time together as kids: To young Blitz, young Stolas essentially "bought him" to spend time with him, which for young Blitz already was a sign of Stolas just using his power in the class hierarchy of hell for his own selfish reasons, and which for Blitz also already cemented the transactional nature of their relationship in general. And with Stolas calling Blitz his impish plaything and other such classist remarks towards either him or imps in general it's no surprise Blitz saw their relationship as transactional even when Stolas started to show more affection. The seeds of Blitz's perception of Stolas had been planted long ago.

Blitz hates himself, the most blatant example of it is the fact all the photos he have in his house have his face covered, manually covered, most likely by himself since Loona's room is not there, he doesn't like to see his face together with other people, even with his own daughter

Maybe Blitz can't stand feeling love because he has never been loved in his life, the only person who truly loves him is his mother Tilla, but ever since the circus accident, his mother is killed and his sister Barbie Wire doesn't want anything to do with him. What's worse is Fizzarolli being injured during that accident and the whole rivalry thing happened all because of Cash Buckzo. Blitz and Verosika dated before, but when she admitted she loves him, he just bailed on her. Maybe the reason is why he did this to Stolas and Verosika is because he's so scared of making new relationships after everything that happened in his life.😨😥

Blitz is easily one the most tragic characters in the show. The fact that his first crush was maimed by the very same fire that killed his mom has definitely skewed his view on relationships. At least blitz has fizz to confide in when he's in need of comfort. I do hope that verosika will pay blitz some visits from time to time to see his progress.

I don't feel like I can handle a romantic and vulnerable relationship. I've been told a lot that I'm in a low league and whenever someone tells me they have a crush on me, it feels like a lie as when I get really attached to someone, I get rejected. It makes me feel like I'm incapable of romance or a relationship with anyone.

Blitz accidentally caused his mother's death, Fizz's injuries and his mother's death likely led to barbie wire's addiction

Blitz is a very relatable character

It is nice though he doesn't become completely like his dad. Cause sometimes when you have abusive parents their kids end up just like their parents. Blitzo however has never mistreated Loona before. In fact he spoils her quite often to the point of giving his bedroom. 🤔

This episode for as much as I love it. I hate that I was foolish into believing there would be some reconciliation, or Stolas smile was towards blitz when it wasn’t. Stolas in tears having to be at blitz side when he was telling him he didn’t want him to be there. I enjoyed knowing blitz will progress into changing and becoming a better person but the realization that his actions have consequences and affect other people’s lives was something really painful but needed in order for him to have that realization

u beautifully explained why i relate to blitz a lot. the self hatred, the feeling of not being useful to others, the feeling of not being deserving of genuine affection or love (romantic, platoic, or familial). this is why blitz is the most complex and relatable character to me.

If Blitzø never had a dad, his life, the way he looks at things would be so much better. Blitzø feels he doesn’t deserve to be loved because of his mom. She loved him and he loved her. He accidentally killed someone he loved as much as they loved him. He pushes himself to believe that if he lets someone know he loves them and they let him know that they love him too that history will have that chance of repeating. It kind of already is with Striker trying to kill Stolas.

I actually don’t think Blitz feels the way he does about elites because he was burned by someone. It’s all because of his father’s conditioning and the accident. The accident has left Blitz thinking that he just ruins people and makes their lives worse. So he refuses to let anyone love because he’s convinced they deserve better than him.

Another possibility is as many others brought up is lingering trauma from the circus fire/Blitz's father. That moment of tragedy came from when he put his feelings on the line at Fizz's birthday and cost him so much that Blitz may have associated being emotionally vulnerable as dangerous. So dangerous that he thinks self-sabotaging and scaring someone away under his own control is the better outcome. And that can also be what made Stolas special. He thought Stolas was invulnerable.

Even though blitz has a hard time navigating through failed relationships, he still won’t let his past define him how to love/ to be loved.