my honest thoughts about adhd:

Published 2024-05-14
wassup spicy brains. this is your girl jingwencita :)

I got diagnosed with ADHD when i was 23. All of sudden, things starting to "make sense". Nobody warn me about all the mood swings, frustrations and self-hating. So i'm gonna sit down and talk about those feelings that's not on your diagnose reports. And lol, this was filmed 2 months after. Now I'm almost 6 months in this adhd thing, got so much to uncover...!

So my love, you are not alone. I hope you enjoy this video and my upcoming ones. Throw in a like, a comment or share it to your friends. Much love!!

All Comments (14)
  • @phnsinrspt
    Great video! It sums up my experience as well. Glad you got diagnosed! It's a battle, but it's much easier to fight even the toughest moments once you know what you're dealing with, and that it's not your fault or character flaws, it's just the way your brain works differently from everyone else's. From that point you can finally start to unwrap all the layers and find yourself and your peace.
  • @ziau.s9283
    I started noticing the same things you spoke about 2 years ago…never thought it was ADHD until I saw some vids but now I’m pretty sure. I go from excited to numb in an hour and it lasts …. I thought that by changing things up, i might be better but after a month of adjusting, still, same feelings. The anxiety, self criticism and annoyance is really tough and it’s devastating realizing certain things. I hsed to think adhd would be cool cause of the hyperfocus on cool things but honestly, when the crash comes, all thoughts of happiness just seem soooo far away😮‍💨. I’m sorry for saying all of this, just trynna figure things out. Love this channel though I found it a few minutes ago(lol already pouring my heart out😅 ) bye ✌🏽
  • I would say having hyperfocus is not actually that good as they say. Cause I for example, instead of doing my thermo homeworks or studying for the exam in 2 days I just start drawing random stuff for my proyect in hyper focus cause even tho'' i love what Im studying its much easier and pleasant to do my mini proyect. That about the template and the ones own awnser is like one of my three most harmful things to deal with but thanks labs Im finding myself pushed through stuff I don't actually know how to do; its been easier for me to start driving, start searching for a job, getting to know people but Im not sure it'll work for all of us... Its just my unique experience. However, I was heading towards... I also think the fun in life might be searching for your own awnsers. Cause yeah you can find awnsers in books or in videos or stuff but. Seriously we actually don't quite get it unless we experience something. At least not always. Or as an example maybe Ive had bad experiences with psycologists but I dont feel none of them had actually understood me and thats when I gave up tu therapy... I had 16 years when I gave up to it btw. Ohp and if I have misspells or something Im sorry its not my native language. I'm 20 btw and I feel I had had much more experiences in these 4 years than in my first 15-16 years of life.
  • New subbie. Totally relate to your content and loved your most recent video because i could also relate.
  • @blwlmnswg
    agreed (Another Asian girl here (T^T) + im prepping for engineering lol it sucks & yeah I hate being a loser
  • @yuukichan12
    I genuinely have no idea what my actual personality is. Adhd + less than pleasant childhood experiences lead to a host of other issues that are only further exacerbated by adhd. What a messy disorder. No pun intended. It fuckin sucks. Thanks for the video.
  • @seanrector4561
    Keep up the content. You got a really creative voice. I have ADHD too. It sucks. Raising kids while dealing with it is hard. Glad the medicine works for you. I haven’t taken any yet.
  • @ahnahavi
    you just summed up my entire life ahhhh
  • @Evilfairy188
    Thank you. I have friends who have ADHD. I've been trying to understand how it may be affecting them- How I can better communicate or empathize with what they go through. This helped a lot.
  • @aldo
    Great videooooo ❤️🙂‍↕️
  • @bvs455
    That's such an amazing video! You basically described what I am. Felt like I was listening to my inner self. I am concerned now about what you said about the medication. Do you believe you can build tolerance when on medication? I was considering start taking medication and hoping for a better life, but that was always my fear, building tolerance to the medication since it happens quite fast to me with caffeine and nicotine