4 Things Confident Men Do That Women LOVE | Courtney Ryan

“The problem with the world is that the intelligent people are full of doubts. While the stupid ones are full of confidence.” – Charles Bukowski

1. Be masculine 2. Be direct (make her feel safe and secure) 3. Have a purpose 4. Body language (eye contact and interest, and use charisma) You’re welcome! Please give Courtney a thumbs up, and remember, she is a unicorn on the crazy/hot axis!

I want to add that confidence comes naturally from doing the work! You can't just tell yourself to be confident no matter what. For example, if you have an exam and you didn't study or do the homework, then you can't just tell yourself to be confident. Don't focus on being confident. Focus on doing the work and bettering yourself and the confidence will follow naturally.

As a guy going through divorce at the moment I want to share my perspective of confidence. I agree with a comment on here that I saw. “You have to put in the work to be confident”. I think this dives deeper than just trying to exude confidence or just working out/ taking care of your body. So many men fail to take care of their mind. I feel like we as men don’t always take the time to sit in silence and have the hard conversations with ourselves of who we are and who we want to be. This going all the way back to past traumas from childhood usually. How you were raised, were you bullied?, were you belittled by a loved one for being sensitive or weak? I think we don’t always want to resolve our insecurities and work through them so we mask it with excuses out of fear which makes us lack confidence. I’ve spent a lot of nights since my divorce contemplating my life and what I have to offer. What things I can look back on In past relationships to make myself better for the next one. Looking at my self worth and how I view myself. Making sure I’m proactively changing the things about myself that were unresolved or that I don’t like. Actually unfucking your mind can help your confidence so much but it is an internal battle. You just gotta be willing to face those issues and sometimes even get help through therapy or through a good friend that won’t bullshit you.

"Just be confident" is like saying "just be thinner," or "have more muscles." Just like having a slimmer or more muscular physique, confidence is the byproduct of engaging in a particular endeavor and producing a result. Confidence is built on successes. You can do one of two things, learn pick-up, which is fake confidence, or take the long road to improve yourself overall, your body, your career, your wardrobe, those will make you feel better, you'll get more looks, more opportunities because the laws of attraction begin to work in your favor. Don't look for a quick fix.

When I feel competent, I feel more confident.

The thing that has leveled up my confidence the most is being real with who I am and what I want in life. Once I said, forget everyone else’s dreams for me, what is my desire? That’s when I really noticed my confidence start to go up! Once you live your life honest with your self and what you really want, confidence increases so much it’s crazy. Never been this confident in my life. Recommend this to every guy and really every woman out there. Know who you are and what you want. Be humble enough to learn but go for what you believe in and be flexible to adjust along the way if needed.

Eye contact, posture, and hygiene (grooming). These three things go a long way. As you watch how women respond, your confidence will grow naturally.

it reminds me of a powerful quote that changed my view on dating/relationships, here it is: "A Man doesn't need to respect a Woman in order to feel attracted to her, but a Woman needs to respect a Man in order to feel attracted to him"

Confidence is needed in all walks of life.

Here's another big one: handling situations. If you can fix it for her when it's broken, or handle things in an emergency, it's huge. But it's also on her to be appreciative, rather than demanding about every little whim.

I held a girls hand and danced with her for the first time yesterday. I really appreciate the work you do.

Just to clarify, dudes Pursuing and Chasing are very different things. Pursuing is knowing the woman wants to spend time with you while Chasing is going after the ones who either don’t want to spend time with you or are playing hard to get but have absolutely no real genuine interest or respect for you. It doesn’t matter if you really like the hard-to-get girl in your vision, she needs to respect your time. Time you are offering to spend time getting to know her. Remember this and your confidence will increase dramatically.

Reminder: Only pursue women who have returned the intrest/effort that you have given them.

I like using the term "walking around like you own the place". It shows confidence, purpose, awareness, responsibility and it shows you know what you are doing. Connect that with dressing well plus manners. From my own experience, displaying this behavior, people men & women will chase you down for help, directions and advice.

"Masculinity is sexy and desirable to women" "Masculinity is toxic to women" I feel fortunate to have been raised in the 50s and 60s. Life was beautiful then

Even if you’re not “confident” it’s better to be yourself than “fake” something you’re not. I believe true confidence only comes with experience so that means putting yourself out there and brushing off rejection.

Not necessarily a good ending, but I was dating a girl last summer, and at the end she said to me "I wanted to break up with you a while ago, but your confidence is a addictive. I wanted to be around you." Confidence is very attractive to women.

If I were to share a few things I've noticed women like about me they are: 1) Trust in who you are and don't care what other people think about you. 2) Don't be afraid to fail or get rejected (and don't take it personally when it happens (which it will)). 3) Listen to her and really process what she's telling you, both rationally and emotionally. Being superficial is one of the WORST things you can do when talking to a girl/woman. 4) Talk honestly and to-the-point about yourself. Trying to impress her by talking about how great you are and how much money you make will only make you look insecure and unattractive. 5) Don't be afraid to show her (in a subtle way) with your posture, body language and eyes that part of you want to rip off her clothes and take her right here and now on the table.

I had to work on my Confidence because I wasn't born with it. I'm an Introvert too like you Courtney so I had to get used to putting myself out there so I did that in my past jobs and in my hobbies that helped me build Confidence and I'm still refining and improving it and I'm reaping the fruits of my Labor. I approached the most attractive Woman at a mall and I was so Confident that she felt nervous because she was into me but Never went further because she was already taken and I could tell she wanted to break the touch barrier with me because she was playing with her hair around me but I have too much Self-Respect and I I Integrity so I said Goodbye and I felt really Masculine when I did that and Loved it. The tips you give on this video are awesome!