INFJ Relationships: What INFJs Need in a Partner

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I’m an INFJ girl and I think I’m gonna be single for my entire life hahah

Any single INFJ women out there, we’re a rare breed.

1. Spontaneous 2. Sure of their identity 3. Able to understand your NF talking style 4. Able to be direct 5. Won't test your boundaries too much

Me, an INTP who is romantically interested in an INFJ person (and totally isn't studying how they work): Interesting.

- someone who can make us more spontaneous, make us take breaks from being a crazy planner - someone who has a fixed identity - someone who can decide what they want and not just be okay with "whatever" - someone whos not afraid to slap us back into reality - someone who respects our boundaries - someone whos willing to accept advice, open-minded - someone who appreciates our way of thinking and how we see the world - someone who appreciates a good listener and like to be unravelled

I’m an INFJ and require a partner who is emotionally independent and can’t live without me. Does that make sense? Ok.

I, an INFJ, would really appreciate a partner who inspires me and helps me to improve myself and get me to do things I actually always wanted to do in a direct but not forcing way. Idk of this makes sense

me, an INFJ : knows what i need in a relationship sees this video in recommendations: lets find out if im right

“I can’t even think of something spontaneous because it’s so outside of my day to day life” 😂 lmaooo me

I'm an INFJ and I really need someone for deep talk, ugh everyone is robbing my energy with nonsense bs.

My boyfriend is an INFJ and I am an INFP. We literally have this discussion a lot "I want what you want" "No, you tell me what you want." "No you decide..." At the end we often have to guess what the other one wants. I am trying my best to make him feel safe to set boundaries. I am uncomfortable with deciding for him too much. Also as I am an INFP he is one of few people where I feel seen, heard and understood. We can deep talk for hours. However, he loves giving advice and helping others and I don't him to give too much, as I don't want him to exhaust himself. I want him to know that he is worthy of being cared for and listened to too. So I guess that's why I am watching videos about INFJs at 2am.

INFJ: cant spontaneously come up with an example of something spontaneous. 😆

Everyone should just have a sims marker with their personality type above their heads 😂

When someone asks a question, it's not rare for me to ask, "what do you mean?" Not because I don't understand the question necessarily, but because I could interpret the intent of the question in several different ways.

Frank: INFJs question their identity a bit too much sometimes Me, an INFJ, who wanted to post something about certain traits, but was afraid it would not resonate with other INFJs and who would therefore question my identity, causing me to question my own identity: sweats

It's ok having boundaries was stupid anyway is the most INFJ thing I've ever heard 😆💀😭

I'm INFJ and I need someone who's helpful and makes me feel appreciated. I don't want to feel like someone's mommy doing everything. I'm pretty easy to make happy. I don't like feeling used or unappreciated

“Can we come back to earth? This is where we live.” As an INFJ girl, I can confirm that I really need someone to help me with this. I can spend HOURS in my own world.

One day I woke up and realized most my friends were INFJs. I believe I offer my INFJ friends and family these things that they crave: 1) Structure and direction 2) My INFJ friends like to be around loudly quirky people because it makes them feel less weird and more comfortable opening up 3) Loyalty, reliability and honesty are paramount to an INFJ, who are often taken advantage of by other types 4) INFJs like my directness because they feel comfortable when they know what their role is and how they fit in 5) INFJs hate manipulation, and they would rather be asked for a favor or even commanded. INFJs usually enjoy working under me because there are no games or hidden expectations to navigate. Everything is clear and the rules are known and fair. 6) INFJs tend to come out of the woodwork to be the wingman for my masterplans. They like big plans that enact change. They want to make an impact. 7) I like to break down and discuss theory and ideas, and INFJs love joining in and discussing things they thought no one else cared about