Judging OUT OF CONTROL r/AITA people

Dylan dropping that his old apartment was a war zone at random times is so funny

Dylan being wrong in technicolour about the family planning... When the moms immediate reaction is to criticize, we all know what kind of MIL we are dealing with here.

Dylan must have a really good relationship with his mom/parents because I couldn't believe how quickly he took the husband's side in the one about trying for a baby. It was completely reasonable to not want to tell anybody about their personal private matters.

The fact that Dylan got so heated about the trying for a baby one is probably the most I have ever disagreed with him. There is often more pressure on the woman to get pregnant and if it doesn't happen, it can often be seen as her fault. Further, since they mentioned that they were on the fence, including other people (like the husband's mom) can add alot of pressure and/or unnecessary commentary if they end up not getting pregnant or changing their mind about trying. Reading the amount of AITA posts about strained relationships between wives and MILs should show exactly why the MIL knowing this is less than ideal.

All of Dylan’s takes in this video are WILD 😂 1)they were on honeymoon, you supposed to be the most excited about spending time together, not the seats on the plane 2)family planning is so extremely personal to a couple. a lot of couples don’t even tell anyone when they get pregnant for months to make sure it progresses smoothly. When married, your parents become extended family and your partner and kids become your “primary” family, so it’s totally fine to keep stuff private from parents, especially arguments, sex life and pregnancy related stuff 🙈

The flying one is so dumb because if the dude knows he has anxiety flying and needs his wife why would you go alone, number 1. Number 2 - it's your HONEYMOON???? You can literally fly business class another day... they both kinda suck but the husband is just dumb.

dylan saying that bullying wouldn’t be an issue with stuarta, but also NOT being able to say the name without laughing 💀

I am actually pissed that Dylan thinks it is is ok to tell family members that you are trying for a 2nd child after agreeing up not saying anyone. Yeah, they are your family, but women HIDE EARLY PREGNANCIES so that they don't have to explain themselves if they have a miscariage. She even said she's not sure if she will be able to concieve. The less people know, the less people she's going to have to explain her own business. No, Dylan, red flag. Edit: I am a guy. You don't need to be a woman to understand this.

You can tell Dylan hasn't been married or dealt with interfering in laws.

Dylan I don't usually comment but you seriously missed the wife's perspective in the family planning situation. Trying for a baby means way more to the wife than it does to the man because the wife will have to make actual physical changes to her life to make this a reality- including her own body and the ML's comment about it "being too late" seems directed at something like that as well. To think that it is solely the husband's decision to tell this to his mom is a male perspective that doesn't account for how personal this information is for the wife and what it means for her to be even trying to get pregnant (physically, hormonally, career-wise, everything).

If I was the wife in the flight story, I would've been so petty. "You're more likely to die first in a crash," and send him back to his seat lmao.

Dylan loves calling people narcissists but fails to mention how narcissistic it is for that last husband to insist so hard on their child being named after him that he wants to name his daughter "Stuarta" and nothing else. Why not the wife's name?? Why does the child need to be named after him???

Women understand the difficulties of having to deal with "overly involved" (to put it nicely) MILs and it's a valid reason why that woman would be upset that her husband shared with his mom their plan to try for another child. You can tell the parents what your plans are but if you don't ask for an opinion on it, don't give one. Some MILs seem think everything is their business and everyone wants their sage advice. It's better to just not tell mothers like that anything.

I actually think Chris Hemsworth might be a BETTER person to tell you're gonna try for another baby as opposed to the MIL. Chris Hemsworth doesn't know you and probably doesn't care; telling him is like yelling it into the void. The MIL, on the other hand, will judge the situation and think she is involved and can have input (as she did), especially since you willingly invited her into it. Also, if they can't conceive, it might be really painful to have the MIL know when you weren't ready to tell her.

As a brown person, telling your MIL of "plans" before the baby is actually conceived and youre well into 15 weeks of pregnancy is possibly the WORST thing that you can do as a DIL

Nah, trying for a baby doesn’t need to be told to anyone. The woman said it’d feel like pressure, especially since conceiving isn’t a guarantee. A lot of women feel this way. Failing to conceive probably already feels awful if you really wanted another baby, potentially having other people knowing that you weren’t successful will make it feel worse. Some people are just wired like that and hate others knowing of their (probably emotionally painful) “failures”. The woman clearly was right to not to want to tell the mother in law just based on her annoying and insensitive reaction, which is to tell them they’ll probably fail and it’s a bad idea because it’s been “too long”. Like, what a response to your SON sharing this news with you.

I love Dylan making fun of the name Stuarta for like 5 minutes and then calling the mom ridiculous for being worried about the kid being bullied 😂

The husband for the flight was in the wrong imo. I could understand him wanting to experience business class because same. BUT they’re on their honeymoon. I think it’s totally reasonable for the wife to want to sit with her husband otw to their honeymoon. Adding the fact that he is anxious on planes- I don’t see why he would choose the seat if he had to be alone. I see their points about the wife potentially writing the story in her favor or not communicating her disapproval of his choice, but I still think he was in the wrong. Maybe not an intentional asshole though. Just inconsiderate.

The husband on the flight was 100% in the wrong. He tried to have his cake and eat it too. You can’t abandon your wife and then still have the audacity to ask her to comfort you for takeoff, on your HONEYMOON no less. She’s a frequent flyer who’s racked up air miles, there would’ve been other opportunities to sit in business class, he didn’t have to leave her alone at the start of their honeymoon.

“Why can’t he just hold the hand of the Malaysian Prince that’s probably sitting next to him?” 😂😂😂😂😂