What To Do With Revenge, Anger and Betrayal

It's hard when you are not able to close a chapter in your life.

Toxic people love it when you are angry. Think hard on your situation- and, don't feed the toxic people. Get even by feeling the feelings, grieve, accept and find a way to be happy. It's your best revenge!

If you don't confront the person who betrayed you, you will have that hurt and resentment channeled into anger misdirected at others. Go towards that uncomfortable place in life and speak your mind and walk away. There must be a moment that you live in truth. We are not entitled to being treated well. We have to earn our respect. Don't reward bad behavior. The secret to life is too care less about what others think and stand up for yourself. Live your life in authenticity, be brave and use your instinct. You are not alone.

...Shutting Out and leaving the Energy Thieves and Emotional Saboteurs behind is your Best Bet!

Thank you Dr Daniel. I decided last night to let go off a family betrayal. This is the first day for the rest of my life. I loved this.

I get so tired of people not understanding that how you treat me and talk to me can have every bit of how I’m going to respond as a HUMAN. I’m all for revenge

Gods revenge is the best. When you can witness vindication, that's the 🍒

the problem is "just ignoring what happened" won't change anything... i experienced alot of that kind of shit. Those bad people are happy through their betrayal..they live great lives because of the wealth/success they took from me. they are literally rewarded their whole lifes for beeing selfish/evil/criminal. they benefit from doing stuff like that there is no karma or god that will turn things for them one day because they have done so much evil... they will be rewarded because they just take what they want no matter what. The only way is to actually get revenge even if that means ruining you own life... it is most likely already ruined.

I had a devastating moment last year. This video was a reminder to me that what's done is done. The feelings of what happened to me were close to the time that is now a year ago, and I needed this to set my mind straight again. Thank you!

Man, You hit it on the head. Thank you.

There is a concept called "Radical Acceptance" read about it. There are some things in life that are not right and they are never going to be right because no matter how much you think about it and analyze it, we can not turn back the hands of time. Not saying it is always easy but at some point you have to choose to LIVE and be happy. One thing too is that sometimes you have to put some people out of your life. Some people only bring negative vibes - even if that person is a family member - we all have the right to safeguard our own sanity from the negative effects of chaotic people.

Forgiveness is deciding to not let that even hurt you anymore

I like that line, "don't empower the other person ". That will be my mantra the next time I get tempted to ruminate on "them". Thanks Gary

Thank you, I was betrayed by my eldest daughter, and then recently by my 'Best friend,' and have been almost unable to live with the pain and anguish...After watching your video, I feel empowered to follow your advice, and I feel better already. Thanks again! Y

the most painful it's when your the one that have to remind them that they betrayed you, and telling them you forgive them . For them days past week's past,the never talk about it.

I experienced this my wife cheated on me I recorded it on our security home camera she put a fan in front of it in hopes to cover the sound I heard everything. My world crushed... I lost my job, tried to kill myself multiple times, and became homeless. Please pray for me

Thank you so much. I was literally ready to act on some very bad intentions and probably ruin my life. It takes so much of your heart to be that bigger person. Lord knows what my intentions are because he's trying to talk me out of them. 🙏🤝 Very much appreciated.

Truth. Don’t give negative energy away, however when opportunity come,seek revenge. Lex Taliones.

I prefer to listen to these words than most therapists who can't articulate positive life lessons and only serve to shrink and make their patients depended on criticsm and feeling bad. Thank you for the healing words !

Thank you so much, you have no idea how this has helped me get through a really bad time/moment in my life and to move forward, it saved me so.