STOP Caring, She Starts CHASING (Here's How)

NEVER CHASE ANYTHING THAT WILL DESTROY YOU MENTALLY, PHYSICALLY, SPIRITUALLY AND FINANCIALLY!!!

I did no contact for 2 months. Not to get her back but to get over her. The problem was that we work together. She dumped me for another dude. I asked if thats what she really wants and theres no going back. She said yes so I let her go and wished her the best. For the next 2 months she would stare at me, bump into me on purpose and do anything to get my attention. I did not call or text her at all and would just smile and say hi at work. After awhile we started talking again in a friendly manner. Thats when the breadcrumbing started. She lead me on multiple times and when I finally called her out on it and she said she was confused and still has feelings for me but didn’t want to get back together. I knew exactly what that meant. From then on I was finally able to let go. For the Fellas and ladies, do not fall for their mind games. They just want you to want them. But fuck that! Learn to love yourself and move on! Level up and find that special someone whose been looking for you!

Leaving this here for myself. When this gets a Like..I'll get reminded. Sometimes its just not meant be. No matter how hard you try. No matter how much energy you give. Sometimes it's best to move on. I know it's hard. But imagine the feeling whenever you find someone who gives you that same energy back. Trust in the Lord. Seek God. His plan is divine. I know looking back it will all make perfect sense. Focus on you. Focus on your dreams. God will send someone who truly deserves you.

I don't want to chase her...and I don't want her to chase me either! Peace is priceless

Pretending won't last . Someone's true self would show up eventually.

It's a matter of being mysterious and not revealing too much of yourself and making yourself unavailable(being authentically busy) which will make them wonder and seek more of your attention and validation

This is actually pretty powerful especially if you're trying to figure out if she likes you. It may be ok to chase initially to get her attention but then stop chasing to do these techniques to see if she starts seeking your attention. I noticed this one woman from work I like now seeks me out because I stopped trying to impress her. I don't even look at her and that drives her crazy. If she doesn't like you after you stop chasing she'll just go on with her life and I've had that happen too.

I sense even in a longer term relationship there is a power struggle, push and pull. Like who is to contact first, who is more invested. I have sensed this having been with a woman this past 18m. Its like sometimes you have to pull back a bit. Some can see it as "games" but it exists whether you like it or not.

It's a catch 22 because then she'll lose feelings once she realizes you're faking it and playing games as well. Holding out hope for a relationship like this is going to do nothing but bring you pain in life.

He who is indifferent holds the power

Bobby Rio is a genius. His advice goes way beyond interacting with women successfully and with dignity but also about brilliantly navigating life in general! Bobby belongs on Mount Rushmore!

It's essential to recognize the delicate balance of validation in dating. Your points on creating tension, strategic disqualification, and shifting the power dynamics are spot-on. As a fellow dating coach, I emphasize the importance of authenticity, maintaining self-value, and allowing space for mutual interest to grow naturally.

I'm doing this...this one girl I've found myself in emotional qucksand over lately has been pulling away slightly. Gotta restore balance

Living with an incurable disease is so hard, but you just have to live life day by day as it goes by (Cancer sucks)

I have played indifferent. It is met with indifference

You are absolutely right! I had to learn it the hard way, having done everything wrong in the past. I wish I had had your advice earlier.

Thanks bobby, this information can be applied in general to outside of dating as well, wherein at places you know that you aren't being appreciated, just walk out. The power that walking out holds is unbelievable. For the kings who say that they do not want to play these games, brothers in this cutthroat environment you have to play the game to win the prize. Just remember always be Harvey Specter and not Louis Litt.

No more chasing validation !

That's true buddy !

This video is literally talking directly to me!! 😂😂 I love it!!