When you retire, never give such things to your children! Especially after 70 years old

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I had three children and I can not rely on any. All three are doing very well for themselves and their children ,which to me, that is a blessing. But none give a thought about me . I must care about myself and just act as if I have no family

I think the selfish uncaring children are more common now in 2024 ! Many kids don’t care about older parents or grandparents 🥲

ALWAYS, ALWAYS BE INDEPENDENT! PLAN AHEAD! 🙏🙏🙏♥️♥️♥️

Don't Expect anything from anyone but yourself.

I am horrified at the number of young working age adults who view any inheritance they may be entitled to as a promissory note that can be cashed in when those parents die and feel cheated if the parents have spent “their” inheritance during their golden years!

After children reach adulthood, they should earn their own living and not expect anymore financial help from parents.

Just take care your health when you're old. Keep yourself healthy... and keep your finances with your pensions. You can't rely with children's with their own families.

I am 81 and cstill working as a caregiver to a 91 yrs old lady who is still ambulatory..

We give our grandchildren money each month and once a year we give our children a substantial gift. They appreciate what we give and we can still live well . We’d rather help while we can see our benefits .They all earn good money but have high out goings. We are not depriving ourself and feel good giving.

As I'm getting older(75) , I hate empty conversations, answering questions,putting on shows ect. Most of important peoples in my life is gone, so I basically learned to be alone. It will be nice to have a lady around now and then.

A great lesson is in this post. Yes, this is how your life turns out if you over extend yourself for them. It is a cruel lesson in life.

Keep yours in good health and keep Jesus first in your liife.Let food be thy medicine God food from the ground orangic foods.

9. It was quite an eye opener. Either ways whether you give or dont give them monetary help they dont feel they have any filial responsibilities.only best option is to take very good care of oneself so as to not be dependent. And above all have faith n trust He will never let you down. Amen❤😊

It really sounds like what we went through, now we are living our dreams, didn’t care what my kids think of us, I’m tired being their maid😢they even caused me of a lot of things when I memtioned moving away where we could still enjoy the retirement😢😍hope someday this will happen to them too🙏😢don’t know how appreciate what u did for them🤔

Yes They sure are ungrateful I recently went through a different scenario Enjoy your retirement with what you hv left don't expect help from them

I guess my wife and I are extremely lucky. While we are multi-millionaires, our daughter and her husband have also done extremely well financially and have never ask us for anything. My wife and I decided that we wanted to give my daughter and her husband and grandsons large financial gifts for Christmas and birthdays but my daughter complained that we should be spending the money on ourselves and not on them since they don’t need our money. Our daughter knows we are very well off but she doesn’t realize how wealthy we really are. We figure she will eventually inherit everything and we would rather give them portions of her inheritance while we are alive instead of waiting until we are no longer around. The fact she never expects us to give her money and never ask for money is probably the reason I prefer to give her money now. They certainly don’t need our money and we have a great daughter who is always concerned about our welfare instead of how much money she can get from us. I appreciate the fact my daughter and son-in-law have made it on their own and they love us for who we are and not because of the money we have in the bank.

i can relate myself to this narrative. nowadays married children still rely on their parents to care for them and their kids.i like what Aura did.

U are so right it’s not a good idea to live with children after retirement. They can put u in situations that u never been in in your whole life like debt

I can relate to this, as I can't depend on my children.