Mastering the art of everyday diplomacy | Alisher Faizullaev | TEDxMustaqillikSquare

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Published 2017-04-11
The world is full of differences. Every day we can face a variety of individuals, groups, opinions, intentions, interests and values, and that may catalyze confrontations and conflicts. How can we maintain peaceful and balanced relations with others? Professor Alisher Faizullaev, D.Sc., Ph.D., scholar, writer and Ambassador, calls on us to master the fine art of everyday diplomacy. He argues that it is normal to be different. The important thing is to learn how to discuss and negotiate those differences rather than fight them.
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Мир полон различий. Ежедневно мы можем сталкиваться с разнообразными людьми и группами, несхожими мнениями и намерениями, противоположными интересами и ценностями, и это может стать почвой для столкновений и конфликтов. Как поддерживать мирные и сбалансированные отношения с окружающими? Алишер Файзуллаев, профессор, доктор наук, посол и писатель, рассуждает об искусстве повседневной дипломатии. Он считает, что быть разными – это нормально. Важно научиться обсуждать различия, а не бороться с ними.
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Diplomat, yozuvchi Alisher Fayzullayev bu dunyoda yorqinroq, osonroq va mazmunliroq yashashga yordam beruvchi qator omillarni sanab o‘tadi. Ruhiy farog‘at, insoniylik, o‘zaro iliq munosabat, samimiyat, shukronalik, komillik sari mudom harakatda bo‘lish atrofdagilarga mehr va yaxshilik ulashishda namoyon bo‘ladi. Axir o‘zingdan rozi bo‘lib umrguzaronlik qilishga nima yetsin?!

There is a special group of people who are professionally involved in international relations: diplomats. And, then there are ordinary people who use diplomacy in their everyday life, and they possess a special art– the art of everyday diplomacy.

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All Comments (21)
  • 1.Mindset(Inner peace,stability,tollerence,patience) 2.Strategy (Balance,routine of love,our values,moderateness with others in ourselves) 3.Skills(Social interaction skills like understanding others,tactfullness like understanding body languages,negotiation,listening all r very important skill,self regulation to calm with discussion with difficult people,know clutural codes because every culture is different.) It is not a sign of weakness,practice to develop ourselves,to develop our peace,practice smile,look ur partner mindfully say good every person is different.
  • Love it when he again asked the audience at the end to raise their hands if they feel like they are diplomats.
  • @jzdxdx
    Great job! World would be a better place because of people like you. Thanks
  • @alishaxamry2056
    Last week I ran my first 5k without stopping and all the time I could hear the voice in my head saying that I can do it. Forwago, thank you so much for everything!!
  • @gulshoda3486
    Thank you a lot ALISHER FAYZULLAYEV. I really appreciate your speach and take so many advantages. I am proud of my country Uzbekistan for its population's politeness ,respect to each other❤
  • @nhix_MLBB
    Thank you professor and former ambassador for this wonderful and substantive speech. I am going to share this with my students in "Understanding Culture,Society and Politics"class. Your intellectual sharing is also helpful in contributing about diversity, inclusion and equality particularly you're talk about leadership and diplomacy is filled with love and kindness. Hope to have more people like you that will help create a better world. More power to you, Uzbekistan and TedTalks. - appreciation from the Philippines. Mabuhay!
  • The best literate person that i've ever encountered! The great speech which really inspired and motivated me innerly,thank you for that USTOZ PROFESSOR ALISHER FAYZULLAEV!
  • @iesaia
    Here we can see the reflection of our society. Even though decent and good things are being spread, there are a group of people who still choose to reject knowledge by the number of dislikes.
  • thank you professor !! this is very important information. you used great words (odob, muloqot, muomila) in your presentation
  • Thanks sir. It's really very important to learn every day diplomacy and it could be very helpful in our whole life. Diplomacy teaches us how to deal with others to make a good relation. It also teachs us how to resolve conflicts. If we learn every day diplomacy we can live a better life in a easy way.😊😊
  • @nemat86
    Ока рахмат каттакон. Жудаем фойдали булди спич. Умриз узок булсин брат 🤲🇺🇿
  • @soularwave
    Love to see self-regulation recognized as part of global political endeavors.
  • @hremaddox
    Thank you! Very inspiring! Best Tedx talk I've ever seen!
  • @mehulgoel7325
    Wow he remembers to mention where we can practice diplomacy, this is a well thought out speech. I will have to listen again, because in sound it was making me sleepy.
  • I felt like a everyday diplomat and thanks this video made me feel good. :)
  • @axel575
    This is just excellent and so important. Thank you
  • Wow, got great halfway through. Learned a lot and clarified much of why I feel drawn to the art. I supervise a Security team at a great mall, my gosh it is large, I use negotiation to stay alive.