LET THEM - JUST LET THEM

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A piece written by Cassie Phillips - about having control of 'you' - by letting those who maybe try to take over control or even manipulate you just get on with being what they are.
She has a lovely way with words. I tried to find a link to include to her work but to no avail.
Apologies for the hammering of the rain - I started, and didn't want to stop
#justdoit #control #beingyourself

コメント (20)
  • @marijncat6711
    old people giving advice on youtube and social media is what this world needs edit: i didn't expect this comment to blow up so before anyone else comments that calling someone "old" is disrespectful; i really don't believe growing old should be seen as something negative or that there is more worth inyoung people. if you don't agree with that, that's okay. now gonna take this lady's advice, and let y'all comment what you want <3
  • @lanchiee34
    for whoever needs to hear this: my mom always told me “you were fine before them, you’ll be fine after them” edit: it was my grandmother who told my mom those words when she would struggle w breakups, then my mom would tell me🖤
  • If the algorithm recommends this when you need to hear it, let it.
  • @sunmarsh
    Maya Angelou said it best: “When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.”
  • @Gh_Manchester
    I’m positive that YouTube is the universe talking to me.
  • @GodsSouljaa
    We have no control over other people’s decisions. We hurt ourselves by trying to control. LET THEM do as they please !!
  • The gift of goodbye, whether it's given to you or you give it to others is sometimes the best solution for both of you
  • “Let them love you.” This hit me deep. I have always been afraid of affection even though I crave it so much…
  • @alia93859
    "If they want to leave, hold the door open, and LET THEM." 100%
  • All you young people, listen up. Age is wisdom. Been there, done that.
  • I love when old people give younger ones advice. You know it’s coming from the heart and that they mean it.
  • @cherrybonbonz
    “And do not automatically take the blame and punish yourself for any of the things that they have done” caught me off guard ❤
  • I think it was Maya Angelou who said, "Never make someone a priority for whom you are only an option."....so true.
  • “Let them see the heart in you that didn’t harden” -painful yet pure and beautiful
  • I loved this poem so much that I had "Let them" tattooed on my wrist. It's a message worth spreading.
  • If they want to come back to you after breaking you into pieces, never let them.
  • “Let them loose you. You were never theirs because you were always your own”thank you 🙏
  • Best advice to survivors of narcissistic abuse.There are thousands of us.The only thing is the narcissist will never love you,they can only love themselves.