adulting Q&A | buying a house, getting engaged, quitting my job?💍【中文】

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Published 2023-08-31
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it is 3 am as i'm writing this description out. hope you enjoyed this Q&A!!
with love,
chlo

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chapters
0:00-1:00 intro
1:00-1:52 is kevin THE ONE?
1:52-2:14 greatest relationship lesson
2:14-3:29 couples therapy
3:29-3:50 proposal when?
3:50-5:20 splitting finances
5:20-5:46 kids?
5:46-6:10 house before marriage
6:10-6:27 housing budget
6:27-6:42 how we found the home
6:42-8:12 home criteria
8:12-8:52 how you knew to put an offer
8:52-9:11 slice of life
9:11-9:51 balancing job & content
9:51-10:18 how content affects career
10:18-11:42 work trauma
11:42 -13:03 MBA/Master's
13:03-13:41 quitting your job?
13:41-14:11 Tech in Asia?
14:11-14:34 PM Advice
14:34-14:54 Myers Briggs
14:54-15:40 sharing life online?
15:40-15:54 vlogging equipment
15:54-16:38 comparing classmates
16:38-17:21 worst financial decision
17:21-18:00 wedding dreams
18:00-18:58 closing thoughts

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All Comments (21)
  • @dr.johnyoo
    holy smokes this vid is loaded with info. covered so many topics in 18 min. petition for a longer podcast going deep dive into the adulting topics. i think you would have a deeply invested audience for financial advice, job satisfaction / passions, and relationships
  • @abolijoshi5668
    Omg fellow ENFJ/INFJ here! I'm a real ambivert and my results are different every time. Your content is always so refreshing and reassuring - thanks for keeping it real! On non-traditional weddings - fight that fight, it's so worth it. Mine was incredibly simple but full of love - I'm glad I didn't cave to family expectations.
  • @sheriberrix
    Your conversations are so refreshing and I absolutely love and agree with your mindset about work and your personal identity. You not chasing after a promotion is really inspiring. I totally agree that there is more to life than work! Looking forward to engagement/wedding content very soon when it happens, hehe. Love your videos Chloe!
  • @fraffeetan9395
    I LOVE YOUR HONESTY. Chloe, you are such an inspiration for this healthy work mindset :)
  • @dqnh00
    Wow Chloe! What you shared about work boundaries so you have time for things outside of work is respectable and a great life reminder!
  • @HanBang
    Love how transparent you are about building a good foundation with your partner, and the tools required to do so a.k.a. therapy and transparent conversations. Super helpful to hear how others ensure a strong partnership. Also love your new slice of life series! Gonna send some questions over on IG/TT!
  • @BastianSarah
    Thank you for planning to do more product management videos 🎉❤ so excited
  • i love that you follow your gut & are very clear about what you feel in your heart! ❤ yes your intuition is tops! keep goin for your dreams ☁ even when they evolve into something else 😁
  • @hellheaven08
    I always love the disclaimer and transparency with your videos i've followed you for a while now, but havent really really dug in your videos until recently because I've just been going through some career struggles. Was in Kinesiology then changed and graduated to become a UI/UX designer a few months ago, some life stuff happened and plans of grinding out my portfolio and find a career in the field have been difficult in Canada. Im finally getting myself together and working on my portfolio but motivation has been hard and watching your videos reminds me I need to stay focused, passionate, and excited. Im a creative and theres so many things I wanna do but I get overwhelmed sometimes and not know where to start. I'm hoping to fix this gradually so I can do all the things I truly want to do, (while also making money) to live comfortably but keep growing. Thank you for these videos! Wish I followed a lot sooner, thank you for being so real in your videos/content (:
  • @c.uriouspalette
    ahhh this video is so cute and insightful!! Looking forward to the next good news you’ll share THIS YEAR 🎉😜
  • @Lulelly
    I work in tech too as a ✨✨software Product Owner✨✨, thank you for being honest about the "dream job" idea. After working at several tech companies, a dream job is one you create yourself or at a company that you built. I love how you acknowledge and honour your other interests outside of tech and have clear boundaries and distinction about what you can do as a job and is it a forever thing or not.
  • @LifeOfACre8tive
    Really awesome video! And I think I have to mention that Kelvin talks so well...😊
  • @tapiocapress
    Thanks for making this Chloe! I just quit my tech job to pursue content full time. But, I live in China, and feel so far removed from the YT/IG/TT creator scene that I sometimes feel like I’m getting into something without knowing what I’m getting into😂 thanks for sharing your insight, and all the best with all the exciting things going on in your life!
  • @tsholo26
    The work trauma section was a big AHA moment for me, I've been trying to articulate my current thoughts and feelings around corporate leveling and that crazy need to be validated. I need more healthy-boundaries tutorials lol. I will get that book. Thank you!
  • @ug24axm
    Looking forward to the career videos. Your videos have really helped me, it gave me the confidence to start negotiating my salary.
  • @machoman3055
    The sharing life online was such a good answer and is something that we could do offline. I feel this especially being at an age where I start going to high school/college reunions and people talk about their life. 😅
  • @pm-ua
    14:25 waiting for this a lot. Should be a banger🙀 Btw one more beast video, a lot of valuable information. Ty Chlo
  • @lousilvia9361
    Hi Chloe, INFJ here ☺️ Thank you for sharing about how your relationship operates. I don’t have a lot of healthy modeling around me growing up so this really helped. Also the visual quality of your videos is amazing. Just subscribed ❤ 加油