3 Secrets the Avoidant Doesn’t Want You to Know!
Published 2024-06-15
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In today's video, Thais Gibson reveals 3 secrets the avoidant attachment style (dismissive avoidant attachment style) doesn't want you to know about. Watch now to learn more about these 3 secrets such as how they feel towards criticism and how they communicate as Thais provides useful tips and guidance.
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00:00:00 - Intro
00:01:05 - Operating from their Subconscious
00:02:07 - They Feel, Just Don’t Express it Openly
00:04:30 - Sensitive to Criticism
00:06:45 - 7-Day Free Trial: Communication Scripts
00:07:07 - Afraid to Communicate Through Words
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00:09:38 - Conclusion
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All Comments (21)
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Stating your needs instead of a complaint would be great advice except DA’s see your needs as criticism. If they can’t read your mind and give you what they think you want, they get hurt when you tell them what you actually want. It’s a set up for failure no matter how you choose your words.
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You said the "DA wants to be accepted as they are".. " As they are" , is absolutely not conductive to having healthy, stable , safe , compatible , relationships.. Do they really feel " as the are" should be acceptable within a healthy connection.?...Only after you choose to heal your childhood issues , I will happily revisit your evolution being the new version of yourself.
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I'm pregnant, depressed, stressed out with work and my DA partner has been nothing but partying and now I've found out that he's possibly cheated on me. I'm so done with DAs.
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They don’t hesitate to criticize the other person, make a snide or sarcastic cynical comment
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I used “I feel disconnected “ and still got discarded after 1 year. Heartbreaking
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Doing God's work in healing people at large
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The HUGE TAKEWAY from today's video for me was: Dismissive Avoidants avoid THEMSELVES. It all goes downhill from there... so perhaps if we break the vicious circle, this has to be Archimedes' lever, and it's the very path to going uphill. Beautiful Thais, Thank you.
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Avoiding THEMSELVES 💪🏻 and only DA/ FA can grab THEMSELVES out of that Attachment Trauma, ACE's , ADHD Auto tune layer. It's comfy to stay in that position and avoid that inner work. Here comes out casual dating, fear of expressing emotions, being emotionally unavailable vailable, no commitment etc. My advice - focus on your healing and your boundaries. Don't settle for less. You just have one life and you deserve also deserve a healthy relationship and actions towards you.
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Reciprocal appreciation for your high level efforts and dedication in your field of expertise
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I love your analogy about the bank account.... This definitely is relatable!
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It's still amazing that people can watch these videos, hear that DA's are operating on a sub-conscious level due to childhood trauma - But still feel the need to say hateful things about them. Surprise, you people likely aren't much better partners.
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As a DA woman I've learn so much about myself from you ❤
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I had my avoidant ex GF tell me when I first meet her we can’t disagree at all. lol I didn’t really understand this but I didn’t understand attachment styles. Wow only if I did I would have saved a year of trouble with her. So many red flags with her that now I hear on PDS. Save your time and don’t date avoidants.
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That was so helpful, thank you. I love your analysis - particularly the bank account rang true and not being able to express themselves. Wish I had known all of this many years ago.
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Thais! You make me feel sorry for him all over again when I’ve been in NC for a month! 😢
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You forgot secret number 4 is that they secretly have you on the back burner because they won’t commit to you.
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Holy moly ❤️❤️❤️ your truth behind criticism
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Thanks for sharing this video with us ❤
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Thais is great at explaining DAs inner world!!
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Maybe they cant afford the relationship level that you can. They aren't doing the work and that costs a lot but others do it
