Carly Pearce - What He Didn't Do (Official Music Video)

I cried to this song for months after splitting up with my narcissist husband of 12 months. Divorce is now final. This video is great.

The devil's in the details I won't tell the hell That he put me through...

Finally getting away from a husband/less than a man who pretends to be so wonderful to everyone but at home he’s anything but. This song is hitting home.

Walking away from 16 years of narcissistic abuse. I come here for a reminder to keep walking away silently to a better place

Im 28.. I lost my dad a few years ago.. and it was hard.. I shut down and I didn't do what I should have.. we were together for almost 6 years and I was a step dad to her 3 kids.. i regret everything i didnt do.. i was a good dad.. but i let her down alot. And she found someone who made her feel special.. so I lost my whole family because of what I didn't do... This hits hard even for me..

This song speaks about my relationship with my narcissistic husband of 6 years of being married and 8 years together with 2 beautiful little girls.. I cry every time I listen to it.... It was a plutonic love story that was supposed to stay forever... I tried to save our marriage dozens of times but I eventually gave up.. I just filed for divorce... Wish me peace and healing whoever reading this.. 😞

This song makes me even more committed to doing right by my wife and (soon to be) three daughters. Tragically beautiful.

My first time hearing this song on the radio and I BURST into tears. Sobbing, wracking, tears. This is my marriage. My 17 year marriage. Sometimes it’s just enough looking them in the face knowing you’re their last choice.

What a song!!! What a video!!! My daughter is at the divorce process. Narcissist.. strong song....👍 Be strong...

"Be a man of his word" ....the weight those words carry my heart drops every time i hear her sing those words...

This song came out as I was leaving my 29 year marriage, I kept what he did private, and this song hit home to me. You can hear the pain in her voice. Great song, a great artist. Also listen to DAY one by her.. Another great one!

Wow, "what he didn’t do". Thats soooo hard. The emotion in her voice just gets me. I finally left an 18 year marriage. I don't know how many times i have listened to this song, but i cry every time.

This is a song that has hit home for me! I was abused mentally and physically! And was so scared to leave, but I finally got the courage, from the grace of god! And was able to leave and hide out till it was all over with! May you have faith and live!

It breaks my heart to read the many stories of domestic abuse, and living with a narcissist. Bless each one of you ladies. There are good men out there, God can show you the right one.

This song hit. I never talked about the divorce or why. He did. My family was on his side.

This song hits home. I remember the day it came out. I was going though relationship struggles when it came out. It made me realize that the person I was with was not the right one…… now I’m happy in a relationship with somebody who does put me first and treats me right and fights for me. Thank you Carly for putting this song out

Everybody's asking what the hell happened Wonderin' why it all went wrong Mama always said, "If you can't say something nice Then don't say anything at all" And I've got my side of the story and he's got his side, too So I ain't gonna go and tell you what he did But I'll tell you what he didn't do Treat me right, put me first, be a man of his word Stay home 'cause he wanted to Always fight for my love, hold on tight like it's something That he couldn't stand to lose The devil's in the details, I won't tell the hell that he put me through All I know is in the end, it wasn't what he did No, it was what he didn't do I'm already halfway over him and I ain't taking time to turn around So I'ma take the high road, even though we both know I could run him out of this town That's just dirty laundry, I don't need to wear the truth So I ain't gonna tell you everything he did But I'll tell you what he didn't do Treat me right, put me first, be a man of his word Stay home 'cause he wanted to Always fight for my love, hold on tight like it's something That he couldn't stand to lose The devil's in the details, I won't tell the hell that he put me through All I know is in the end, it wasn't what he did No, it was what he didn't do I ain't met the right one yet but I know when I do He'll treat me right, put me first, be a man of his word Stay home 'cause he wanted to Always fight for my love, hold on tight like it's something That he can't stand to lose The devil's in the details, I won't tell the hell that he put me through All I know is in the end, it wasn't what he did No, it was what he didn't do And all I know is in the end, it wasn't what he did No, it was what he didn't do Source: LyricFind Songwriters: Ashley Glenn Gorley / Carly Pearce / Emily Shackleton What He Didn’t Do lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC

Who doesn't love a woman with a beautiful voice singing with a twang guitar. Change the " He" to she. Talks to me. Goes both ways.

I love this song ... just left my narcissistic abusive womanizing husband after 5 years still going through the divorce ... this song has helped me cope more then you can imagine... it's a song to live by ..

Not a marriage but this is why my last relationship ended. Beautifully written song and just hit every chord for me.