WHAT YOU INVESTED IN THE RELATIONSHIP

Can't thank you enough Andrew. So many things hit home. I broke up with the Narc in 2008 because i sensed something was wrong. I changed jobs in 2011 and she got back into my life. Tried dating her for another 6 months and sensed something very wrong so i broke up with her again. Very next words out of her mouth were "i'm pregnant". I married her because i wanted my child to have a two-parent household. Was discarded last year, and get this!-She tells me she HATED me since 2008 because i broke up with her, and she only came back into my life in 2011 to get revenge! Evil Demon. With your help i am clawing my way out of the pit and hope the divorce is final very soon. Thank you again. Your work helps Many people like me.

The narcissist likes everything you like while planning to destroy everyone and everything around you. The worst kind of toxicity.

The amount of life draining energy it took to “ not make him angry…or else” for decades is indescribable. Nearly 8 years out now- the freedom is beautiful.

Know that it's a cliche, but I truly believe that if you don't learn to love yourself that you will be forever stuck in the muck and mire that you have lived.❤

When you meet a man that is kind and normal, you won’t know what to do, it flows so easily, no pain, no drama and all respect

I'm ready for abundance. Now that I have removed so many narcissists from my life, I am striving for self-sufficiency, security and success. When I achieve it, I won't have to worry about them coming around to collect what they think they deserve. 🙌 :::Listening to "Sun in Your Eyes" by Grizzly Bear:::

Yes the more invested...the more they disappointed & thought of me as a possession to control, because that's what a narc does.... RUN!!! Be Well, Be Wise 🌈🎀😘

YES, its time to Invest in ourselves and Those we Love,.we wasted our Time it Went into a Black Hole into nothingness thats what they Are,,,They Consume us ,Cause they're Envious of our Authenticity,,❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️Believe in Yourself and Your Core Beliefs Always,, 🤗💞💞

Keep it up, little brother. Never stop teaching others how to release themselves from the quicksand.🎉

What good is a honeymoon when you have already spent the newness and excitement of each other. Living together is the honeymoon ruiner. Patience and slow engagements are the key.Thank you❤😊

I’m 66 years old and I have no relationship with my children or my grandchildren because of my ex-husband. I’ve never met three out of my seven grandchildren. And four of them have been taken away from me by their parents who are also narcissists. I feel the pain, but I realize I have to keep living❤

"Counter-parenting" should be the word of the year. Narc wanted ME to raise her daughter.. to prepare her for college. And I did. But narc wanted to be daughter's BFF, and when I said bedtime is 10PM, narc said 2am.. when I said wake up by 10am, narc said 2pm. How many times did I come home from work at 6PM, I would cook dinner, but Narc's daughter had just finished the "breakfast" narc prepared at 5PM?? Narc worked against me in trying to be a family and both she and her daughter resented me for doing the right thing. I hope this helps somebody out there. Step-parents.... don't take on this role. You'll never be appreciated, or respected, or given credit for being responsible. You will be ostracized as the "disciplinarian" for saying "No, you can't stay up all night and sleep all day."

Continuing to put up with the Narc is like touching a redhot burner knowing it hurt the first time and is going to always hurt

He took away most of my life; happiness, confidence, energy, money, just to name a few. It has been a year since I freed myself from him. I did not know what happiness was for two decades. I am now very happy. Never again!

Yes, I invested so much... Acceptance is the harshest lesson and the most important to learn. letting go of the illusion and accept things as they are. Release your gaps within, know your values, retain your boundaries so that there is no more neediness and emptiness driving your choices. Thank you for this video in the beautiful green forest, Andrew. Stay safe everyone! 🌲🍃❤🍃🌲

Congrats for the 200k, Andrew. You saved us. Such a huge achievement!!!🎉🎉❤❤

This is totally me. I was earning more, i put in so much more financially and emotionally. I was insanely lovebombed looking back. I was married and had a child. One thing you said just hit me. She wanted to be a friend, to have someone to go shopping with. Not a parent. Astonishing. Oh and then she practised parental alienation. The most cruelest form of abuse. To poison the one thing in this world i loved and valued beyond anything. That is gone now. They really are evil people. That is accurate. They are evil corrupt malignant entities. However, i am free of her and indifferent. I have no reason to have any communication at all and that suits me. Congratulations on the viewer's

I remember the awful feeling of trying my hardest to build a life with a man who did not want stability. I finally got a lightbulb moment and realized my ex-narc wanted it that way.

The narcissist is a taker. You invest in the relationship & then they disappear in the snap of a finger. Years you can't get back. When you are healed, you will no longer think about what you invested in the relationship. Something for everyone healing to look forward too. Awesome video Andrew 🙌. Thank you. Love your background & the dirt path 🌲🌿💧 God bless ☀️ 🪰🪰 🙃 Stay strong everyone

It blows me away that I can now realize what's going on. If I told my son, he'd give me the side eye.