Mandela Effects! We Got Into A Big Fight...

BIG LIFE UPDATE!!! and CONSPIRACY THEORIES! https://youtu.be/01iQXY-anhc Feel free to SKIP TO CONSPIRACY THEORIES 33:15 but we'd love if you hung out with us the whole show :) AHHHH!!!! it feels so good to be back! We love making this show so much! Hope you enjoy the episode! It's a ROLLER COASTER!

For anyone wondering about Uno and that doesn't watch Ryland Podcast the Sip, he told everyone that Uno is fine. They did all the tests and the vet thinks it was a one time thing. thank God he's such a good boy

For Cece: I was a counselor at a domestic violence center and we would always teach survivors about red flags/warning signs for abuse. A big one is moving really fast at the start of relationships; saying I love you very soon, talking about marriage right away, moving in together very early on, etc. It’s a manipulation tactic to gain control over you and secure your trust and attachment to them. I hope this isn’t the case in your situation but please be careful and listen to your gut. Things that seem too good to be true usually are.

As a therapist, I am completely with Shane on his advice of handling it as a family and not having anymore secrets.

I really really REALLY think all of CeCe's situation sounds like one string of red flags after another. She sounds so young, happy, and naive and that's the prime target for people who manipulate in relationships. I'm honestly worried for her.

For the second voicemail, can we please give props to the son? His dad legit told him don't tell your mom, and the son, knowing cheating was wrong and not wanting to harbor a secret, told his mom anyway. Glad the kid is learning to always do the right thing, even when getting peer pressured from.a family member to do the opposite

For CeCe, i just want to remind everyone about Shane’s good friend that was nearly trafficked, that whole situation. It sounds SO SIMILAR, her saying it seems to perfect to be true, having an iffy feeling at times, etc.

My friend’s mom used to say that you should never marry someone until you’ve seen them in every season. Meaning you should know how they react/respond in all situations. What are they like when you guys have a big fight? What are they like when they’re sick? What are they like when they are unemployed, or insulted, or grieving, or depressed, or struggling financially? You should see them in action when things are hard and how they treat you and include you before you even consider marriage.

Cece needs to be a recurring guest to keep us all updated 😮 This is sketch

I’m worried for Cece, because it’s a very common behaviour called ‘love bombing’ that abusers and narcissists use in the start of relationships to manipulate women.

Omg Shane Janell is my Mom, thank you so much for playing her message on the podcast! My sister, my mom, and I we're all freaking out!! We love you guys so much ❤️ and feel free to call her anytime...I'd love to hear her reaction 😂

Okay but I need to contact Cece cuz I LITERALLY went through the same exact situation last year and it's terrifying how spot on and similar her story is to mine! All I gotta say is listen to shane hunny and RUN 😅😭

Shane you’re so incredible for recognizing the childs possible trauma, you’re going to be an amazing dad🥹💗

You guys should do a: Am I the Asshole? Episode of the podcast. Audience submitted scenarios/ voicemails. Everyone ( Ryland Chris Shane and Jared) vote yes or no using whiteboards.

PLEASE NEVER STOP MAKING THIS PODCAST - I LOVE IT SO MUCH!!

Cici.. I hope she knows that's exactly how narcissists operate. My mom just got of almost the exact same situation.. She didn't notice the red flags at first either.

Scary Uno Update :( - 04:31 Fashion Update - 06:45 Viewer Voicemails! - 08:58 Cece Relationship Update - 20:29 CONSPIRACY THEORIES - 33:12 Optical Illusions - 34:50 THE DRESS - 37:36 What's in my Mouth? - 49:38 The Taste of Color - 52:51 Jack in the Box - 56:10 Special Cameo Surprise - 59:48 Ryland's Recap - 1:01:22

The fact that CeCe is talking about getting pregnant is truly terrifying.

To Cece : seriously be careful & take it slow. I’ve been in your position when I was 20, I’m now 24, moved in within 2 weeks, 6 months in I was pregnant, 10 weeks after my 1st baby I got pregnant again… now got a 1&2 year old all I can say is I’m now trying to leave an extremely emotionally abusive relationship & now my poor kids are in a broken family for my poor choices I made because our relationship was “perfect” at the start, it wasn’t until I had his kids he became the complete opposite & controls us. If he truly loves you, he won’t mind waiting, get to know each-other deeply, enjoy your dates together, you’re still just young & we tend me to be vulnerable at this age. I wish you very well!

This podcast series is actually my favourite thing ever. And shane‘s brother is so cool.