I Became Transgender. Here’s Why I Regret It.

Liking “boy things” or “girl things” doesn’t make you a boy or a girl.

Now, HE is someone who deserves the courage award. This is what it looks like when the truth sets you free.

Giving a biological male the woman of the year award is beyond ridiculous!

I always dressed like a boy, but my parents always made it clear that I was a girl. I also was a Christian so I had that as my identity. Finding me a female role models who were more tomboyish made me feel strong and confident.

“No one is more hated than he who speaks the truth.”

Another thing I think people need to know is that the clothes you like doesn’t change who you are. I like wearing pink, and I’m not the most masculine man in the world, but I know damn well I’m a man and I’m fully comfortable in my own body.

The decisions we make because of not ever feeling loved and accepted for who we are is heartbreaking 💔

Kudos to this man who reclaimed his manhood. The world needs to hear more stories like this. Special shout out to that praying therapist as well.

This poor guy had a Grandma who wanted her Grandson to be a Granddaughter, an abusive father, and a creepy uncle all at once!

The fact that his grandmother made him keep the dress a secret from his parents shows she knew it was wrong. Any adult who is telling a child something that needs to be kept secret between them is up to no good.

Poor guy it seems as though he worked through all the awful things other people did to him I hope people listen to him. He seems very caring and dedicated good man.

I heard once a transgender testimony on how “he always knew he was a girl”. He invited his mother to the video and she explained how she “always knew the baby she had in her womb was a girl” and when they told her he was a boy she rejected the idea because in her heart “she knew he wasn’t a boy, but a girl in the wrong body”. So when he was very little and he showed interest in girl toys (like every single normal kid in the world who has natural age curiosity), she took it as “a sign that she was right all along”. She was the sick one who fed the idea of his son being a girl and “supported” his journey at a very very young age only because she was obsessed with having a girl. I was beyooooooond confused and disgusted!!

What a crazy story... "I was a broken child before I was 10" is going to be a common sentence 20 years for now

I had gender dysphoria while growing up, but I never fully transitioned. I was also an abuse victim. I notice a lot of people with gender dysphoria have abusive pasts. Gender "affirmation" doesn't cure their trauma. I wish the medical community worked more to address the trauma instead turning straight to hormone therapy, but I guess that's not the politically correct thing to do.

He is so well aware of why he is the way he is. You can tell he has really had to work through everything that happened to him in his life. Good for him for being able to do that ❤I think more trans people need to do this to get to the bottom of why they have gender dysphoria.

You're a speck of light in a dark tunnel. Thank you for speaking out and helping young people.

I too lived as transgender, full time for 3 years. When I was 4, my parents were divorced with a bad ending to the relationship. My mother met my stepfather soon after. He was not a pleasant man. He was angry, abusive and unnecessarily violent. I have 2 sisters, no brothers. I am the oldest of us 3. My stepfather was highly abusive toward my mother and myself, and I grew to resent men and wishing I was a girl like my sisters, who never received the same treatment. Im not sure about sexual abuse, but with all the partying my parents were doing, and with all the people they entrusted around me as a child, it wouldn’t surprise me, but if it happened, I blacked it out. When I was 11, I remember crying at night and begging whatever god was listening to change me. It wouldn’t be long before I began sneaking in to my mothers room to take her clothes and cross dress in secret. I came out for the first time when I was 16, to my dad and a concerned teacher who had noticed my behavior, being angry, intolerant, combative, non participatory and with outbursts in class. They told me it was a phase and I must be depressed or something, which I was. I began identifying as Chelsea in school, but I was still dressing as a boy. At about 21, I came out full time and was living as a “woman” for about 3 years before deciding that it was insane, realizing the triggers that led me there and deciding that I could live happily as the man I was born. I am now almost 30, having “detransitioned” about 6 years or so ago, and I am more mentally stable and happy with who I am as I’ve ever been. Thankfully I grew up in more conservative states where doctors don’t just throw hormones at you. I never took HRT or had any surgeries, and Im thankful for that. I don’t regret anything about it because it made me who I am, wiser, stronger and more understanding of the mental illness that is gender dysphoria and the people who suffer from it. If you read this far, thank you for reading my story.

My brother used to play dress up with me when we were little. Nowadays, people would start calling him a girl and he would grow up thinking he is. The problem is he grew out of it. Kids can think and do one thing and really believe the opposite and if they don't now they probably will change their minds anyways. Kids are impressionable. They should be protected.

I’m just a cis male who’s not even out of high school yet, and I gotta say, it’s heartbreaking when confused cis people (or even specific trans people in some cases) regret getting sex affirming surgery and can never fully reverse the damages. However, transgenders and detransitioners should both be protected, as well as assisted within the context of their transition and/or detransition, always. I further argue that a comprehensive reflection of the articles contained in UDHR would likely promote similar attitudes to mine. Just another opinion though. Stay safe y’all 🙏🏼

I’m not even half way through, but I’m crying. God bless this man ❤