LET THEM - JUST LET THEM

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Published 2024-04-30
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A piece written by Cassie Phillips - about having control of 'you' - by letting those who maybe try to take over control or even manipulate you just get on with being what they are.
She has a lovely way with words. I tried to find a link to include to her work but to no avail.
Apologies for the hammering of the rain - I started, and didn't want to stop
#justdoit #control #beingyourself

All Comments (20)
  • @Justjoey17
    If the algorithm recommends this when you need to hear it, let it.
  • @marijncat6711
    old people giving advice on youtube and social media is what this world needs edit: i didn't expect this comment to blow up so before anyone else comments that calling someone "old" is disrespectful; i really don't believe growing old should be seen as something negative or that there is more worth inyoung people. if you don't agree with that, that's okay. now gonna take this lady's advice, and let y'all comment what you want <3
  • @sunmarsh
    Maya Angelou said it best: “When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.”
  • @notislamay
    Did anyone else find this video at just the right time? It's such a coincidence that it found its way onto my feed, and I'm glad it did. ❤
  • @lanchiee34
    for whoever needs to hear this: my mom always told me “you were fine before them, you’ll be fine after them” edit: it was my grandmother who told my mom those words when she would struggle w breakups, then my mom would tell me🖤
  • @GodsSouljaa
    We have no control over other people’s decisions. We hurt ourselves by trying to control. LET THEM do as they please !!
  • @HeyBuddiesClips
    My mum always told me “they’ll need you before you need them.” It’s true! Everyone that’s turned their back on me or thought they found new, more fun friends to spend time with and left me by the road side, they’ve always come running back to me in a crisis. Their true and dependable friend. Now I’ve learned to keep the door closed to the fair-weather friends. Mum was right. She usually is.
  • The gift of goodbye, whether it's given to you or you give it to others is sometimes the best solution for both of you
  • @Gh_Manchester
    I’m positive that YouTube is the universe talking to me.
  • @whisper1017
    All you young people, listen up. Age is wisdom. Been there, done that.
  • @leoni17148
    I love when old people give younger ones advice. You know it’s coming from the heart and that they mean it.
  • @alia93859
    "If they want to leave, hold the door open, and LET THEM." 100%
  • @cherrybonbonz
    “And do not automatically take the blame and punish yourself for any of the things that they have done” caught me off guard ❤
  • I loved this poem so much that I had "Let them" tattooed on my wrist. It's a message worth spreading.
  • @annchristine47
    Best advice to survivors of narcissistic abuse.There are thousands of us.The only thing is the narcissist will never love you,they can only love themselves.
  • “Let them loose you. You were never theirs because you were always your own”thank you 🙏
  • “Let them love you.” This hit me deep. I have always been afraid of affection even though I crave it so much…