Myths About Gender Confirmation Surgery (Male to Female GRS/SRS)

Hi everyone! My surgeon was Dr. Ellie Zara Ley at the Meltzer clinic in Scottsdale, Arizona 💚 I highly recommend her and the clinic as a whole 🥰 Instagram & Twitter: @_samanthalux

I'm completely new to the whole trans thing (I've never actually met a trans person). I'm a 39 year old white straight male, from a very conservative town/family/upbringing. I've been pretty much been set in my "John Wayne" ways my whole life, but I'm glad I discovered your channel, your videos have definitely changed my perspective on a lot of issues. I became a dad for the first time last year. I used to think... "what if he's gay?" "what if he decides to become my daughter one day?" and now I realize... who cares? as long as my child is happy, that's all that matters. P.S Samantha you are a stunningly beautiful woman (inside and out).

I know this is off topic, but girl you’re glowing today!

I’m only 15 years old and i’m not apart of the LGBTQ community or anything but i love watching your videos because i feel really educated and informed on transgender people ❤️ keep doing these videos!

I don't get why self-lubrication is such a big thing, given there's a lot of cis women who have problems self-lubricating. Also, I just love your channel and how straight-forward you are.

ugh gorgeous as always

We should get 1 dollar for every person who asks if we could get pregnant. Also, you look bomb cister🔥

Imagine if trans people could just like, body swap with each other and everyone got what they wanted. That's be awesome.

i came out to my parents four months ago and they didn't quite believe me and started to deny my whole experience and yesterday in family therapy I cried because my father told me he couldn't ever respect a trans woman and if i decided to dress up as a woman that would be insulting our home and I cried more. I can't wait to be independent so I can transition because for the moment that's just impossible and in my foreseeable future i would be having the body of a man. Thanks Samantha for giving me hope and love when at home all I'm being fed up is hate towards this kind of thing. I'm twenty and I've repressing this for such a long time now, and thanks to you and people in the community I now realize there's nothing wrong with wishing you have been born the other sex. I aspire to be like you someday, even if my family doesn't accept it. Love to all.

off-topic but you're so so beautiful

if this makes you feel any better, i’m a cis-woman and even i need to use synthetic lube... i have no idea where this stigma came from 🤷‍♀️

NORMALIZE LUBE! cis! trans! straight! bi! gay! men! women! nb! e v e r y o n e w h o w a n t s i t. LUBE IS GRRRRRREAT. p.s. A++++ content :) :)

me: a cisgender woman watching this to be educated so i can help my transgender friends feel more comfortable <33

I always figured that 'genital reconstruction surgery' was a better term to use; more descriptive, and 'bottom surgery' sounds like something a proctologist would do.

Totally respect all the points you make, just want to say in regards to the period thing - I understand your perspective and I don’t think anyone should tell a trans woman that they are “lucky” not to get it because they have a different struggle, but also I see a lot of transwomen saying that cis women are “lucky” to get periods and this also comes off as insensitive to cis woman like myself who struggle with horrific period pain, endometriosis and other issues that are always brushed under the mat. I hope we can both stop saying things like this to each other and acknowledge that there are negatives and positives to all situations.

Wow the amount of misconceptions I had about bottom surgery, like I had heard almost all of them! Thank you for making videos like these, it is channels like yours and jammidodger that really helped me to understand the trans community and experience better. ❤️

You look pretty today!

Kudos for being so open about such personal things. I can’t imagine ever having that much courage. I appreciate the education. Keep doing what you’re doing!

I hate that feeling of being depressed, especially when there really isn't adequate reason to be. We are young, beautiful and have a whole life to live. We can change everything about our selves and yet still be so depressed.... I know what you mean, I'm sorry you are struggling.

Honestly, lube just makes everything better. Using lube isn’t a negative thing at all. Never feel bad for wanting to use lube during sex. This goes for everyone.